Bullies
Anybody 'different' they tease15 total reviews
Comment from lyenochka
That's a good question! Who can even up a score like that? And why? It's too bad that bullied people sometimes become bullies themselves out of self-preservation. You have a very compassionate way of viewing the world.
I had to go back to 2016 until I could find a post of yours that I didn't review already! I started in August of 2016 here.
reply by the author on 19-Oct-2021
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That's a good question! Who can even up a score like that? And why? It's too bad that bullied people sometimes become bullies themselves out of self-preservation. You have a very compassionate way of viewing the world.
I had to go back to 2016 until I could find a post of yours that I didn't review already! I started in August of 2016 here.
Comment Written 19-Oct-2021
reply by the author on 19-Oct-2021
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Wow, thank you so much, Helen! I am amazed that you went way back to 2016, to find a post that you hadn't reviewed yet!
You actually gave me a gift of Recognized status, for doing this for me!
Wow, oh wow!!
You give intelligent reviews, and I am honored to receive this today!
Your kindness is overwhelming and I cannot thank you enough!
Have a wonderful, wonderful day,
my friend!
Jesse
Comment from jusylee72
Wow, You understand this so deeply. So profoundly. It makes me wonder who you are and what abuse you went through. I was also taught never to go against authority . I am 62 now. But it took me years, to talk back to anyone I conceived as a boss. So much in your poem is amazing.
reply by the author on 04-Nov-2016
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Wow, You understand this so deeply. So profoundly. It makes me wonder who you are and what abuse you went through. I was also taught never to go against authority . I am 62 now. But it took me years, to talk back to anyone I conceived as a boss. So much in your poem is amazing.
Comment Written 04-Nov-2016
reply by the author on 04-Nov-2016
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Thank you for your enthusiastic review. You're right, I do understand this subject deeply. I was always seen as "too sensitive" and "different" from others. I didn't fit in at school growing up and it continued into adulthood. I still get heckled by the neighbors outside my window, early in the morning, when I like to wake up to write, etc. I will always be seen as weird by some who don't care to understand me. I live with it the best I can, and continue to work on my personal growth. Seeing the 'big picture' has helped me a lot. I live alone (with my two cats) and have always been considered a loner. I read "Walden Pond," by Thoreau when I was thirteen. I could relate to being alone and away from the masses.
I am 62 as well. I was always questioning authority since I was a kid. But I held it in until recent years, afraid of the consequences. Now, I consider the consequences of my actions and then, most of the time, do what I want to do. It is freeing to be able to be myself after all this time of trying, unsuccessfully, to please others. Thank you so much for your interest in my life, and the gift of Six Stars. Your kind words are very appreciated.
Take care, Jesse
Comment from MissMerri
What a thought provoking poem, Jesse! I think you have perfectly described the bullying situation ... The reasons and the results.. It is such a sad situation. I think you hit the nail on the head when you say... They pick on the ones they don't understand. That is so often the way it is, and sadly, anyone the least bit different is who is on the receiving end, until someone makes the effort to understand. Thank you for tackling this sensitive subject and doing it so effectively. I commend you. MM
reply by the author on 27-Oct-2016
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What a thought provoking poem, Jesse! I think you have perfectly described the bullying situation ... The reasons and the results.. It is such a sad situation. I think you hit the nail on the head when you say... They pick on the ones they don't understand. That is so often the way it is, and sadly, anyone the least bit different is who is on the receiving end, until someone makes the effort to understand. Thank you for tackling this sensitive subject and doing it so effectively. I commend you. MM
Comment Written 26-Oct-2016
reply by the author on 27-Oct-2016
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Thank you for your understanding and encouraging review. I appreciate your comments and compliments very much. I was bullied as a child, and again as an adult. Described as "different" by so many, including my family, I have a sensitive disposition, which doesn't help matters, that's for sure. Writing poetry has always been an outlet for me, both therapeutically and creatively. As you say, it takes 'the effort to understand', and to empathize with the different people in our lives. You have obviously done that so well with me. Thanks for understanding and for being my friend.
Your friend, Jesse
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Jesse... the best writers are almost always sensitive, and I learned that about you right away. I'm so sorry you were mistreated that way. You certainly did not deserve that but I know poets are often labeled as different too. Keep smiling. And by all means, keep writing.
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Thanks, friend, for your support and encouragement. I will always keep writing, it is a big part of me. And, thanks for understanding.
Jesse
Comment from Thomas Bowling
I hate bullies. There seem to be a lot of them, butI don't understand when someone says they are being bullied online. Get off Facebook!
reply by the author on 11-Sep-2016
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I hate bullies. There seem to be a lot of them, butI don't understand when someone says they are being bullied online. Get off Facebook!
Comment Written 11-Sep-2016
reply by the author on 11-Sep-2016
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Thank you for reading and reviewing my poem. You give some interesting remarks. I appreciate your candor. I am not on Facebook, or any other social site unless you count FanStory, as a social network. But, for many people, Facebook is a way of life for them. And, especially young people, can be easily hurt by teasing or, other kinds of bullying. Some commit suicide over cyber bullying. It, as well as other forms of bullying, need to be taken seriously. Thanks for sharing your views with me.
Peace, Jesse
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Where are the parents when it's time to turn off the computer and do homework?
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On their own Smartphone or computer...it is a problem to be sure. Better parenting skills would help alleviate many of the problems facing our society. I agree with you...where are the parents!?
Jesse
Comment from Mystic Angel 7777
You raise a very valid question at the end as many of those in positions of authority have their own personal axe to grind and are not focused on truly helping those in need. This is quite powerful and very well penned. Nicely done and I thank you very much for sharing it.
reply by the author on 11-Sep-2016
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You raise a very valid question at the end as many of those in positions of authority have their own personal axe to grind and are not focused on truly helping those in need. This is quite powerful and very well penned. Nicely done and I thank you very much for sharing it.
Comment Written 11-Sep-2016
reply by the author on 11-Sep-2016
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Thank you for your kind remarks, and encouraging review. Too many times, victims become bullies, when put in authority positions. The police brutality, that is filmed almost daily, around this country, is a testament to this theory. I know that this is a generalisation, but I think, there is merit to the theory, as well. Your comments and compliments are appreciated. I am glad that this poem has made an impact on those who read it. My persuasion, to give the subject some thought, is all I could ask for. Thank you for sharing your views.
Peace, Jesse
Comment from Jannypan (Jan)
Jesse,
This is a sad commentary on something that is so out of control in our society--any/all bullying whether cyber or face to face. You make some great points. It is a difficult subject to discuss and/or try to control.
Just last Thursday, there was a shooting at a high school not far from where I live. The one with the gun was bullied to the point of violence to end it. One person was randomly shot, then the shooter committed suicide. Such a tragic event.
Your poem is thought-provoking & well deserved of being read by all.
Thanks for sharing. Jan
reply by the author on 11-Sep-2016
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Jesse,
This is a sad commentary on something that is so out of control in our society--any/all bullying whether cyber or face to face. You make some great points. It is a difficult subject to discuss and/or try to control.
Just last Thursday, there was a shooting at a high school not far from where I live. The one with the gun was bullied to the point of violence to end it. One person was randomly shot, then the shooter committed suicide. Such a tragic event.
Your poem is thought-provoking & well deserved of being read by all.
Thanks for sharing. Jan
Comment Written 11-Sep-2016
reply by the author on 11-Sep-2016
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Wow! First of all, thank you for your kind comments about my poem. Second, you are so right, it is out of control in today's society. I believe many factors contribute to a person becoming a bully. Often they are bullied at home, either by siblings and/or parents. We must encourage diversity so that everyone is included, and noone, excluded, from a society of equals. I am excited by the responses to my poem on bullies. It's a subject we need to examine and talk about, openly. Thank you for sharing your views with me.
Peace, Jesse
Comment from Barb Hensongispsaca
No and usually it leads to suicide as my friends 12 year old daughter did after cyber bullying.
It doesn't end till it is finally over, but they just move on to another lost soul.
Very well stated
reply by the author on 09-Sep-2016
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No and usually it leads to suicide as my friends 12 year old daughter did after cyber bullying.
It doesn't end till it is finally over, but they just move on to another lost soul.
Very well stated
Comment Written 09-Sep-2016
reply by the author on 09-Sep-2016
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Wow, you have experienced so much, either through your friends or from your own life. Thank you for your supportive review and comments. A 12 year old taking her own life is tragic, to say the least. Cyber bullying is destructive and evil. It is one of the things I don't like about the computer age. I am sorry for your friend's loss. Thanks for sharing and making it personal, for you and for me.
Peace, Jesse
Comment from Gloria ....
It's a long process for us to learn about the ripple effect caused by bullying, Jesse. All animals dislike and attack creatures or things in their environment they don't recognize or are uncomfortable with. It's a survival instinct and part of OUR reptilian brain reactions.
Sometimes they are also sociopaths whose brains just do not have the conscience chip.
Excellent post and great food for thought.
Gloria
reply by the author on 09-Sep-2016
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It's a long process for us to learn about the ripple effect caused by bullying, Jesse. All animals dislike and attack creatures or things in their environment they don't recognize or are uncomfortable with. It's a survival instinct and part of OUR reptilian brain reactions.
Sometimes they are also sociopaths whose brains just do not have the conscience chip.
Excellent post and great food for thought.
Gloria
Comment Written 09-Sep-2016
reply by the author on 09-Sep-2016
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Thank you for your enlightening comments and for your encouraging review. I thought it needed to be talked about, and if I have planted a seed of food for thought, in any reader, then I have done my job. Thanks for sharing.
Peace, Jesse
Comment from robyn corum
This is an unusual, sad and depressive write. I think bullies create bullies, myself. But I don't think we can ever even the score because the damage is inside, not physical. Interesting.
reply by the author on 09-Sep-2016
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This is an unusual, sad and depressive write. I think bullies create bullies, myself. But I don't think we can ever even the score because the damage is inside, not physical. Interesting.
Comment Written 09-Sep-2016
reply by the author on 09-Sep-2016
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Thanks for reading and reviewing my poem. I appreciate your interesting comments. Asking if we can ever even up the score was rhetorical. There is no easy answer, but the problem won't go away on its own. I feel it needs to be addressed. Thanks for sharing.
Peace, Jesse
Comment from TAB_that's me
You make some great points. I believe some cops were either bullies as kids or bullied as kids so they do the same to others.
Nicely done James:)
teresa
reply by the author on 09-Sep-2016
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You make some great points. I believe some cops were either bullies as kids or bullied as kids so they do the same to others.
Nicely done James:)
teresa
Comment Written 09-Sep-2016
reply by the author on 09-Sep-2016
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Thank you for your supportive review. I think you hit the nail on the head, as far as some cops, go. Your kind words are appreciated very much. Have a great day.
Peace, Jesse
