Comment from JW

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I am deeply sorry for your loss, Bev. and do commend you and yours for being willing to take care of your sister's children.

You will be sorry missed on FS - but I wish you the best of luck.

Thank you for your friendship, support, etc. JW

 Comment Written 23-Apr-2016

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reply by the author on 24-Apr-2016

Thanks, my friend. I appreciate it very much.

Bev

Comment from Joan E.

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I lost my only sibling, my brother, to cancer but it was anticipated and he was 75. I cannot imagine the shock of your sister dying suddenly and at such a young age. I hope your having the responsibility for her three children will not be overwhelming and might even be considered a gift. Please return to FanStory when you find it appropriate; you will be greatly missed and you will be in my thoughts. Warm regards and condolences- Joan

 Comment Written 23-Apr-2016

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reply by the author on 24-Apr-2016

Joan, thank you so very much for your helpful words. I was lucky to have my sister for fifty six years, but she was an incredibly important part of my life and I will miss her every minute of every day.

With my sister's encouragement, I was a big part of her children's life from the moment of birth to their current ages. They know me very well, and I think those years of bonding will insure we will stay close. I can be incredibly insistent in some areas, and I will insiste on remaining close even if we are three hours away. I need it, and I think they do as well.

I'll be back on FanStory when the time is right. It's far too important a part of my life for me to deny the healing power of writing. I mainly wanted to let my friends know that I feel bad I can't review them and the reason for that.

Thanks for your encouraging and healing words, Joan. I appreciate it.

Hugs, Bev

reply by Joan E. on 24-Apr-2016

I am pleased to hear that you have always been close to your nieces and nephews. And, yes, the healing power of writing is undeniable; so, I hope you find the time and energy to continue to paint with words, even if you do not post them on FanStory for a while.

Keep your fond memories close and be patient about the grieving process. Gentle hugs- Joan

reply by the author on 24-Apr-2016

Excellent advice, Joan. Thanks for sharing your insights. I plan to keep my Fanfriendships intact however and whenever I can.

Hugs, Bev

Comment from Giddy Nielsen-Sweep

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Bev, my dear dear friend. Peter and I are saddened by the sudden loss of your sister. What a cruel blow. Just know that we are thinking of you and certainly you and your family members are in our prayers. In Him you will find strength. Sincere Hugs, and love, Giddy xx

 Comment Written 23-Apr-2016

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reply by the author on 24-Apr-2016

Thank you so very much, Giddy. I can feel the love behind your words and I find them to be a real balm for my soul right now.

My husband and I have been touched by the incredible support of the faith community my sister and children were a part of. These people have stepped forward in ways we could not have imagined and things are falling into place in a stunning show of the Lord's power. We already have good plans in place for the best route to getting the children into safe and supportive environments.

Fortunately, I have been a part of their lives in quite a profound way from the time of their births. So, we have a rapport and level of trust that is helping the situation immensely. Yet, we know they cannot be uprooted from the lives - especially the sixteen-year-old. He'd been cultivating a strong bond of trust with a Christian family from his church, and he will be in a dynamic and dependable situation with them until he reaches 18.

I know this is long, but I feel comfortable sharing with you, Giddy. You are one of my dearest Fanfriends.

XX Bev

Comment from barkingdog

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Dearest Bev,
You have my deepest condolences.
How shocking and unexpected this must be for you.
I have always felt a deep connection to you and wish I could be there for you, but please know that you have all the support that I can give through prayers and positive thoughts.
Your life has taken a turn. Stay strong. The children need you. Isn't that the way it usually goes? When you need, someone needs you even more.
Again, much love and my arms are around you.
As ever in peace and beyond.

ellen

 Comment Written 23-Apr-2016

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reply by the author on 24-Apr-2016

Dear Ellen,

Thank you for being there for me in such a personal and wonderful way right now. I promise that I will be in touch with you just as soon as my thoughts calm down a bit. I believe talking with you will be very helpful, and I'm grateful to know you are at the other end of the phone.

I feel your arms and your love, Ellen. I can't express how much your note means to me. I do need to be strong, as you were forced to be through your horrendous tragedy. And you have much wisdom to share with me. Believe me, it is a resource that I know I need right now.

Love,

Bev

reply by barkingdog on 24-Apr-2016

Do not hesitate to call. I'm here.
Love,
ellen

Comment from c_lucas

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My condolences to you and yours Bev. I am at the other end. I have lost eight of my siblings and there are six of us left from ages sixty-eight to eighty-seven. God bless you and yours.

 Comment Written 23-Apr-2016

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reply by the author on 24-Apr-2016

Thank you so much, Charlie. I think you're in the position to know how cold it is right now, outside the light of one living sister. I can't express how much I will miss her.

Your kind words are appreciated.

Bev

Comment from Wabigoon

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Bev--
So sorry to hear this! I will miss your presence here. Maybe, improbable as it may seem, checking in on this...funhouse might be a way of coping? Forgetting?

But, I will miss you and am still waiting for the continuation of the brujo in Mexico story when you have it.

Best
Jeff

 Comment Written 23-Apr-2016

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reply by the author on 24-Apr-2016

Jeff, thank you for taking time to send along this kind message. You know, I agree with you. When I feel I can focus enough to actually write something, I'll be back with another adventure with Doctor Morales. Thanks for being a friend I need right now, and know I'm honored by that.

Bev

Comment from Jay Squires

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God bless you, Bev. They and you are in my prayers. I can't believe I have to stretch this out so FS will feel my comments are helpful.

Jay

 Comment Written 23-Apr-2016

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reply by the author on 24-Apr-2016

Thank you so much, Jay. Your prayers are much appreciated.

Bev

Comment from L.lora

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Bev, though I've been absent for quite sometime, I'm so very sorry to hear of your loss. My prayers and thoughts will be with you and your family. Lora

 Comment Written 23-Apr-2016

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reply by the author on 24-Apr-2016

Your prayers and thoughts mean a lot to me at this time of grief, Lora. Thank you so much!

Bev

Comment from judiverse

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My deepest sympathies, Bev. You're always such a loyal supporter, and I appreciate that. It is tragic to lose your sister at that fairly young age. My sister passed away unexpectedly at about that age from a massive heart attack. I'm sure you'll do fine with the children, as they're on their way to adulthood. Take care, and we understand if you're not around for a while. judi

 Comment Written 23-Apr-2016

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reply by the author on 24-Apr-2016

Judi, you really do know what it's like to go through this. Thank you for sharing your insights and for your support. I'll be back on FanStory when I think I can put together a decent sentence! Right now, my emotions are raw and my thoughts are pretty dark.

Take care,

Bev

Comment from seaglass

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I'm so sorry for you. My prayers and best wishes are being funneled your way. My husband and I had to raise my 2 grand sons in their teens after we had retired. God's grace is sufficient.

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 Comment Written 23-Apr-2016

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reply by the author on 24-Apr-2016

What a blessing you were to your grandchildren. I thank you for sharing that and for you reminder that God's grace is sufficient. I do believe that, my friend.

Bev