Say What You Will: Day 2., Pt 1
Gwen & I are lost26 total reviews
Comment from Raffaelina Lowcock
We always hope for good news, but we are not surprised when it's bad.
You seemed to be expecting the worst and unfortunately, that is what you had to deal with. We had two Border Terriers, Huckleberry and Finnigan and Huckleberry was the first we had to deal with, leaving Finnigan alone.
So I resonate with you and Gwen. So sad.
Ralf
reply by the author on 11-Jul-2021
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We always hope for good news, but we are not surprised when it's bad.
You seemed to be expecting the worst and unfortunately, that is what you had to deal with. We had two Border Terriers, Huckleberry and Finnigan and Huckleberry was the first we had to deal with, leaving Finnigan alone.
So I resonate with you and Gwen. So sad.
Ralf
Comment Written 04-Jul-2021
reply by the author on 11-Jul-2021
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Thanks so much, Ralf. Unfortunately, we had to have Gwen euthanized on June 25th of this year. This house is so very empty without her. Love, Jan
Comment from Ric Myworld
Oh, no! The terror of having to do what's right, even when it can't possibly heal your hurting heart. And then, having to kick your selfish self in the butt to get it done. Outstanding writing. I wish I had a six. Thanks for sharing.
reply by the author on 29-Jun-2021
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Oh, no! The terror of having to do what's right, even when it can't possibly heal your hurting heart. And then, having to kick your selfish self in the butt to get it done. Outstanding writing. I wish I had a six. Thanks for sharing.
Comment Written 29-Jun-2021
reply by the author on 29-Jun-2021
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Ric, thanks for the thoughts of the sixer. Nothing can heal this hurting heart right now. Jan
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I'm sure, and I'm so sorry you lost your friend and family member!
Comment from Judy Lawless
You've done a wonderful job of conveying all the deep feelings that you, and Gwen, went through during this difficult time. You know you made the right decision, but the knowing doesn't make it any easier.
reply by the author on 26-Jun-2021
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You've done a wonderful job of conveying all the deep feelings that you, and Gwen, went through during this difficult time. You know you made the right decision, but the knowing doesn't make it any easier.
Comment Written 26-Jun-2021
reply by the author on 26-Jun-2021
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You are so right, Judy. I just asked my husband yesterday how doing something you know is right has to hurt so much. Jan
Comment from royowen
That's so sad, we have been in a similar position, not once, but several times, the decision of course, is always the same, we never want to give them up, but my mother in law's echo in my mind, "they are only leant to us for a short time." Beautifully written Jam, I cry with you. Well done, blessings Roy
reply by the author on 25-Jun-2021
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That's so sad, we have been in a similar position, not once, but several times, the decision of course, is always the same, we never want to give them up, but my mother in law's echo in my mind, "they are only leant to us for a short time." Beautifully written Jam, I cry with you. Well done, blessings Roy
Comment Written 25-Jun-2021
reply by the author on 25-Jun-2021
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Thanks so much, Roy. I think we are so much kinder to our pets than we are to our people in cases like this. Jan
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I think so Jan, they don?t argue.
Comment from Sandra Stoner-Mitchell
This is so sad, I know exactly how you were feeling having been there myself. They are not 'just dogs' 'just cats' they are our family, we love them and they love us. I have to go and read part two now, hoping for a miracle. Sandra xxx
reply by the author on 25-Jun-2021
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This is so sad, I know exactly how you were feeling having been there myself. They are not 'just dogs' 'just cats' they are our family, we love them and they love us. I have to go and read part two now, hoping for a miracle. Sandra xxx
Comment Written 25-Jun-2021
reply by the author on 25-Jun-2021
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Sandra: I was praying for a miracle, too, but I didn't get one in this instance. I still miss him so much. Jan
Comment from Carol Hillebrenner
This is a very well-written and emotional piece. I've felt the same way about every cat and dog we've lost. I must admit I wonder what your granddaughter's response was as grandma fell apart.
reply by the author on 25-Jun-2021
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This is a very well-written and emotional piece. I've felt the same way about every cat and dog we've lost. I must admit I wonder what your granddaughter's response was as grandma fell apart.
Comment Written 24-Jun-2021
reply by the author on 25-Jun-2021
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She was only 2 1/2 at the time but smart enough to know her nanny was terribly upset about her beloved Mac. We live next door to her so she was growing up with my pups. Jan
Comment from Wendy G
I am crying with you! Even though this is Mac's story and a re-post. How hard these decisions are. It is right to be unselfish, and to do what is best for the pet. My heart also goes out to dear Gwen. Beautiful writing.
reply by the author on 25-Jun-2021
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I am crying with you! Even though this is Mac's story and a re-post. How hard these decisions are. It is right to be unselfish, and to do what is best for the pet. My heart also goes out to dear Gwen. Beautiful writing.
Comment Written 24-Jun-2021
reply by the author on 25-Jun-2021
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As I said to my husband today, why does doing the right thing have to be so damned hard? Jan
Comment from Elizabeth Emerald
I'm back from day 1--this is another tear-jerker--brilliant work--raw grief as apropos per circumstances--gripping story, so sorry it doesn't end well--on to the next ...
reply by the author on 25-Jun-2021
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I'm back from day 1--this is another tear-jerker--brilliant work--raw grief as apropos per circumstances--gripping story, so sorry it doesn't end well--on to the next ...
Comment Written 24-Jun-2021
reply by the author on 25-Jun-2021
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Thanks, Elizabeth. Jan
Comment from nora arjuna
Jan, oh, I'm not sure what to say... so sorry you had to lose him. I understand perfectly about being so connected to your pets. I have them at home too, and had lost a few. They are like your own child, irreplaceable with the next one you acquire. Take care, nora.
reply by the author on 14-Aug-2011
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Jan, oh, I'm not sure what to say... so sorry you had to lose him. I understand perfectly about being so connected to your pets. I have them at home too, and had lost a few. They are like your own child, irreplaceable with the next one you acquire. Take care, nora.
Comment Written 27-Jul-2011
reply by the author on 14-Aug-2011
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thanks, again, arjuna, for this exceptional review -- Gwen and I are still reeling a bit from this -- love, jan
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yes, we too, still long for our black cat, mimi, that died a couple of years ago. you two take care, nora.
Comment from ExperiencingLiphe
You are doing a wonderful tribute to good ole' Mac. If you ever figure out how to get pictures on here you should throw a picture of him on here with this. I'm going to be so lost without my dog if something ever happens. And your are absolutely right, they are not just animals, they are family.
licked my tears dry sometimes almost before I knew they were falling;
(I've totally had this happened)
reply by the author on 16-Aug-2011
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You are doing a wonderful tribute to good ole' Mac. If you ever figure out how to get pictures on here you should throw a picture of him on here with this. I'm going to be so lost without my dog if something ever happens. And your are absolutely right, they are not just animals, they are family.
licked my tears dry sometimes almost before I knew they were falling;
(I've totally had this happened)
Comment Written 27-Jul-2011
reply by the author on 16-Aug-2011
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thanks, WIVA -- love, jan
