Just A Memory!
True love lives forever21 total reviews
Comment from Carol Hillebrenner
Some people are horrified to find themselves furious because someone they love has died and left them. That emotion is actually part of almost everyone's dealing with grief. Many refuse to admit to the anger, but they shouldn't be. It helps clear out all the misunderstandings and angry words in their relationship and leaves mostly just the best memories.
reply by the author on 20-Sep-2024
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Some people are horrified to find themselves furious because someone they love has died and left them. That emotion is actually part of almost everyone's dealing with grief. Many refuse to admit to the anger, but they shouldn't be. It helps clear out all the misunderstandings and angry words in their relationship and leaves mostly just the best memories.
Comment Written 20-Sep-2024
reply by the author on 20-Sep-2024
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I know I've had my share of anger...even a God...but luckily I know he forgives me and undertands. I appreciate your thoughts and kindness. Thank you so much.
Smiles, Carol
Comment from Douglas Goff
Beautiful, yet sad story. This made me think:
A flutter of movement caught Tammy's eye -- a tiny blue butterfly, its delicate wings
I wonder where the legend originated that butterfly's deliver messages? Interesting.
Thanks for this emotional tale!
reply by the author on 17-Sep-2024
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Beautiful, yet sad story. This made me think:
A flutter of movement caught Tammy's eye -- a tiny blue butterfly, its delicate wings
I wonder where the legend originated that butterfly's deliver messages? Interesting.
Thanks for this emotional tale!
Comment Written 17-Sep-2024
reply by the author on 17-Sep-2024
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For me, it began when I stood at my 4 yr old son's grave and screamed, shaking my fist at the sky. The pain and anger I felt isn't describable. I told God if he had to take my son, he could at least tell me that he was alright. Two blue butterflies, tiny ones, suddenly were flying around and one landed on my mother's ring and did not go away. The other flew around the gravesite. I will always believe that one was Michael and the other - Matthew (Gift of God) and the baby they said I would never have.....I was blessed.
Smiles and hugs, Carol
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God turns it around. And you are blessed!
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Yes...I was blessed beyond words and it has happened with the butterfly several times.
Comment from Pam Lonsdale
I like how you compare Jason's attributes with the taste of melted honeyed butter on freshly baked bread:-)
Memories are a gift, not a curse. When you can sit on your porch and hear and feel the one you've loved, then they are with you.
Animals have been known to visit people grieving for a lost one, and I like how the butterfly visited Tammy.
The presence of the Bible in this scene tells me that Tammy was also speaking to God when she said she felt abandoned and like "he" had let her down.
Very well told, Carol. Thanks for sharing this story of hope with us.
xo
Pam
reply by the author on 17-Sep-2024
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I like how you compare Jason's attributes with the taste of melted honeyed butter on freshly baked bread:-)
Memories are a gift, not a curse. When you can sit on your porch and hear and feel the one you've loved, then they are with you.
Animals have been known to visit people grieving for a lost one, and I like how the butterfly visited Tammy.
The presence of the Bible in this scene tells me that Tammy was also speaking to God when she said she felt abandoned and like "he" had let her down.
Very well told, Carol. Thanks for sharing this story of hope with us.
xo
Pam
Comment Written 17-Sep-2024
reply by the author on 17-Sep-2024
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Thank you, Pam! I know that my loved ones are with my every day and that is a blessing. So many have passed before their time and I can't help but wonder how life would have been different, but I know it is not mine to question. So I am happy for the memories.
Smiles, Carol
Comment from Harry Craft
Like a soldier's last stand, A great line Carol. This story is very powerful indeed when it comes to love and someone you have lost! It is such a shame that this is part of life and it is for us all. But your story is very good and shows a part of us all in it. We all go through this at some point in our life. Keep up the great work!
reply by the author on 16-Sep-2024
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Like a soldier's last stand, A great line Carol. This story is very powerful indeed when it comes to love and someone you have lost! It is such a shame that this is part of life and it is for us all. But your story is very good and shows a part of us all in it. We all go through this at some point in our life. Keep up the great work!
Comment Written 16-Sep-2024
reply by the author on 16-Sep-2024
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Thanks again, Harry! I've got quite a few stories floating out there... I appreciate the reviews because the blind ones rarely get read. Makes me sad! So I am going to stick to ones that say I wrote it....Have a great day!
Smiles, Carol
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Well, no problem Carol. You have a great day too!
Comment from Jacob1395
The emotions came through so strongly in this piece, Carol and I could feel the pain of what you must've gone through at this same. It is definitely true that the people we love never truly leave us. An excellent piece of writing.
reply by the author on 16-Sep-2024
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The emotions came through so strongly in this piece, Carol and I could feel the pain of what you must've gone through at this same. It is definitely true that the people we love never truly leave us. An excellent piece of writing.
Comment Written 16-Sep-2024
reply by the author on 16-Sep-2024
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A very nice way to start my day! Thank you for understanding what emotions went into the post but more importantly what came out of it. A reminder that though physically at your side, they are always with you.
Smiles, Carol
Comment from Wendy G
You need to write what you need to express, regardless of how often. These writings are your source of comfort, and give you renewed courage. Write for yourself and don't feel you always must write for the reader - although many can identify with and be encouraged by the stories you share. This was another excellent one.
Wendy
reply by the author on 15-Sep-2024
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You need to write what you need to express, regardless of how often. These writings are your source of comfort, and give you renewed courage. Write for yourself and don't feel you always must write for the reader - although many can identify with and be encouraged by the stories you share. This was another excellent one.
Wendy
Comment Written 15-Sep-2024
reply by the author on 15-Sep-2024
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Thanks, Wendy...
Some times I feel as if I burden the reader with all my sentiments and frustrations, but this one was as if I was being told to write it...maybe I was missing something,I don't know. I appreciate you and your review.
Smiles, Carol
Comment from Julie Helms
You've taken a brief moment and examined it from all angles giving the reader a very well-developed view of the situation deeply felt by Tammy.
I'm not a romantic. I wish I were sometimes. But your excellent writing clues me in to what things feel like for those who are.
My only suggestion:
butter on freshly baked bread as it crossed your eager
(The 'your' pulled me out of the story briefly. You could just reword it out....as it crosses eager lips)
Thanks!
Julie
reply by the author on 15-Sep-2024
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You've taken a brief moment and examined it from all angles giving the reader a very well-developed view of the situation deeply felt by Tammy.
I'm not a romantic. I wish I were sometimes. But your excellent writing clues me in to what things feel like for those who are.
My only suggestion:
butter on freshly baked bread as it crossed your eager
(The 'your' pulled me out of the story briefly. You could just reword it out....as it crosses eager lips)
Thanks!
Julie
Comment Written 15-Sep-2024
reply by the author on 15-Sep-2024
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I was too busy thinking about theat warm bread crossing my lips to consider anything else...LOL Your are correct that it would flow better. I'll have to get my eraser out and wipe it away.
Smiles, Carol
Comment from karenina
Mike is at your side. Each of these stories reach out to alk of us who harbor anger at a lived one gone too soon.
You are being inspired by the most beautiful love you two shared, and I, for one, am a blubbering romantic soaking up every word!
Karenina
reply by the author on 15-Sep-2024
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Mike is at your side. Each of these stories reach out to alk of us who harbor anger at a lived one gone too soon.
You are being inspired by the most beautiful love you two shared, and I, for one, am a blubbering romantic soaking up every word!
Karenina
Comment Written 14-Sep-2024
reply by the author on 15-Sep-2024
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I have to say that something was telling me to write this or else trying to tell me something else because I had a sensation but didn't know exactly what. thanks my love for reading and understanding what's within the story.
miles, Carol
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He needed to know you feel him near...
he knows it's been a rough patch. "Just a Memory" can save our sanity at times!
Comment from Karen Cherry Threadgill
My husbands didn't die on me. I can't imagine strong true love like that. My husbands turned out to be selfish idiots who thought I existed to spend 24/7 thinking about them and servicing them. Being on my own is a breath of fresh air to me. Even if I am broke all the time. I rely on me. I am sorry for your losses. But hold on to your good memories, they keep us warm.
Karen
reply by the author on 15-Sep-2024
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My husbands didn't die on me. I can't imagine strong true love like that. My husbands turned out to be selfish idiots who thought I existed to spend 24/7 thinking about them and servicing them. Being on my own is a breath of fresh air to me. Even if I am broke all the time. I rely on me. I am sorry for your losses. But hold on to your good memories, they keep us warm.
Karen
Comment Written 14-Sep-2024
reply by the author on 15-Sep-2024
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I'm broke all the time too...isn't that part of being old and alone. but I am happy and that counts for more than most everything else. Thanks Karen and take care.
Smiles, Carol
Comment from LJbutterfly
Write on. Write on, and I'll read. I'm an emotional cry baby. When my mother passed away, I was only 38 years old. We were very close. I went through all the stages of grief, beginning with anger. It took me years to recover. Last year, 2 days after my birthday, I loss my younger sister. I still have my husband. We've grown old and gray together.
I'm glad you can write about how you're feeling. It serves as a release. And here I am, sitting down here in Florida, clinging to every word, trying to understand and gain strength. All I can say is...Dear Carol, Write on.
reply by the author on 14-Sep-2024
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Write on. Write on, and I'll read. I'm an emotional cry baby. When my mother passed away, I was only 38 years old. We were very close. I went through all the stages of grief, beginning with anger. It took me years to recover. Last year, 2 days after my birthday, I loss my younger sister. I still have my husband. We've grown old and gray together.
I'm glad you can write about how you're feeling. It serves as a release. And here I am, sitting down here in Florida, clinging to every word, trying to understand and gain strength. All I can say is...Dear Carol, Write on.
Comment Written 14-Sep-2024
reply by the author on 14-Sep-2024
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I love you Lorraine! By the way, I've been meaning to ask...where in Florida are you? One of my favorite places! thanks for the kindness and all the good vibes you always send my way. I appreciate more than you know.
Smiles, Carol