The Brevity of Life
My neighbor passed unexpectedly the other night25 total reviews
Comment from Alcreator Litt Dear
Indeed, well said, our lives are just like upside down, everything changes every minute, nothing is permanent, life changes every minute, death is compulsory, none knows when it comes, everything needs preparation, even death also, but nothing happens as man thinks, everything happens under God's plan, a news of death like that of your neighbour, reminds us our deathso life is brief, it may cease anytime, none but God knows; well said, well done, post god speed more, share post not 4 self-joy-pride but 4 God and readers worldwide Alcreator Litt Dear (DR)
reply by the author on 17-Dec-2022
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Indeed, well said, our lives are just like upside down, everything changes every minute, nothing is permanent, life changes every minute, death is compulsory, none knows when it comes, everything needs preparation, even death also, but nothing happens as man thinks, everything happens under God's plan, a news of death like that of your neighbour, reminds us our deathso life is brief, it may cease anytime, none but God knows; well said, well done, post god speed more, share post not 4 self-joy-pride but 4 God and readers worldwide Alcreator Litt Dear (DR)
Comment Written 17-Dec-2022
reply by the author on 17-Dec-2022
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Hello DR,
Thanks so much for the great review and well thought out comments. Life is so fragile. It hangs on a thread that can snap at any time. All the more reason to live in a way that pleases the Lord.
Have a blessed evening.
Tom
Comment from jessizero
I can understand being thrown into a tailspin because of the stress and surprise of an unexpected death. Thank you for sharing, and good luck with things.
I liked the phrase "generic prayer."
reply by the author on 17-Dec-2022
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I can understand being thrown into a tailspin because of the stress and surprise of an unexpected death. Thank you for sharing, and good luck with things.
I liked the phrase "generic prayer."
Comment Written 16-Dec-2022
reply by the author on 17-Dec-2022
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Hello Jessi,
Thanks so much for the fine review and comments. If there are warning signs, death isn't such a shock, but we don't get a heads up before a car accident or some other unexpected situation. I think the best we can do is to live in a way that there are no regrets. Have a blessed evening gal.
Tom
Comment from LJbutterfly
You have made a lot of thought-provoking statements. After certain ages, we all recognize the inevitability of death, and most of us push the thoughts aside. My husband and I have paid for burial arrangements, and it is a satisfying feeling to KNOW where you will be after death. We also have wills, but still don't like to think about the end of our lives. Thank you for this reminder that even death needs to be planned.
reply by the author on 17-Dec-2022
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You have made a lot of thought-provoking statements. After certain ages, we all recognize the inevitability of death, and most of us push the thoughts aside. My husband and I have paid for burial arrangements, and it is a satisfying feeling to KNOW where you will be after death. We also have wills, but still don't like to think about the end of our lives. Thank you for this reminder that even death needs to be planned.
Comment Written 16-Dec-2022
reply by the author on 17-Dec-2022
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Thanks so much LJ for these thoughtful comments and review. Having the certainty of eternity can indeed give us some degree of peace, but as you mentioned, the inevitable will happen, and it's just part of good stewardship to be prepared for it, however unpleasant the thought of death.
Have a blessed evening.
Tom
Comment from Thomas Blanks
I found your story sobering. Several people I knew passed away recently, and several stories posted here have been about dead in recent days. Thank you for sharing.
reply by the author on 17-Dec-2022
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I found your story sobering. Several people I knew passed away recently, and several stories posted here have been about dead in recent days. Thank you for sharing.
Comment Written 16-Dec-2022
reply by the author on 17-Dec-2022
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Hello Thomas,
Death can certainly come as a shock. Some friends of mine recently lost their son unexpectedly. There is no good time to pass away I suppose, but hopefully, I will proceed any of my children. Thanks so much for the thoughtful comments and review.
Have a blessed evening.
Tom
Comment from MissMerri
One thing I've always enjoyed about your writing is how you are able to add just the right details to bring your scenes to life, but never too many. This is a perfect example of excellent writing, illuminating an experience, making it so believable and real to the reader, we feel the unsettling emotions you must have experienced going through this. And... BTW, the picture you chose is such a perfect illustration for this piece. Thanks for sharing. MM
reply by the author on 17-Dec-2022
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One thing I've always enjoyed about your writing is how you are able to add just the right details to bring your scenes to life, but never too many. This is a perfect example of excellent writing, illuminating an experience, making it so believable and real to the reader, we feel the unsettling emotions you must have experienced going through this. And... BTW, the picture you chose is such a perfect illustration for this piece. Thanks for sharing. MM
Comment Written 16-Dec-2022
reply by the author on 17-Dec-2022
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Hello Adonna,
You are always so very generous with your comments and reviews. I'm humbled by your kind words and the six stars. Thanks so much for your kindness.
Have a blessed evening.
Tom
Comment from Mary Shifman
I absolutely agree with you! My husband died with an old will in tact that he had made out before we were together. I am told that I will get something from the sale of the property by those who inherited, but I'm not holding my breath. Still, I'm keeping my fingers crossed.
reply by the author on 16-Dec-2022
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I absolutely agree with you! My husband died with an old will in tact that he had made out before we were together. I am told that I will get something from the sale of the property by those who inherited, but I'm not holding my breath. Still, I'm keeping my fingers crossed.
Comment Written 16-Dec-2022
reply by the author on 16-Dec-2022
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Hello Mary,
I'm sorry to hear that your husband passed away. One never likes to think of the inevitable, but the more we prepare for it, the easier it is for those who are left behind. I think it's part of being a good steward of what you have. Our families will have enough to deal with, without having to work out the details of our passing. Thanks so much for the fine review.
Have a blessed day.
Tom
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Thank you, Tom.
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Thank you, Tom.
Comment from Ginda Simpson
"Dying wasn't on the list of things to do that day." By packing in the details of a busy life cut short, you get our attention and perhaps the message to live each day fully, and to think of those we will be leaving behind. Good story.
reply by the author on 16-Dec-2022
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"Dying wasn't on the list of things to do that day." By packing in the details of a busy life cut short, you get our attention and perhaps the message to live each day fully, and to think of those we will be leaving behind. Good story.
Comment Written 16-Dec-2022
reply by the author on 16-Dec-2022
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Hello Ginda,
thanks so much for the great review and comments. While it's never pleasant to think about, dying is a part of life, and just like any other planned event, the more we prepare for it the easier it will be on our loved ones.
Have a blessed day.
Tom
Comment from Malcolm Rothery
That is why we have to enjoy the now. We never know when old bony face will come knocking with his scythe. I must admit to having no fear of dying. I had a brush with it a couple of years back. Rather than being scared, I was peaceful, almost tranquil (I am not religious). I got over it and got down to writing while I could and now I enjoy it a great deal, so something good came of it.
Have a great holiday season. Live long and prosper!
reply by the author on 16-Dec-2022
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That is why we have to enjoy the now. We never know when old bony face will come knocking with his scythe. I must admit to having no fear of dying. I had a brush with it a couple of years back. Rather than being scared, I was peaceful, almost tranquil (I am not religious). I got over it and got down to writing while I could and now I enjoy it a great deal, so something good came of it.
Have a great holiday season. Live long and prosper!
Comment Written 16-Dec-2022
reply by the author on 16-Dec-2022
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Hello Malcolm,
Thanks so much for this great review and comments. I've had a few brushes with death, but I don't think I really believed I was going to die at the time or I might have been afraid. I think we should live life to the fullest, but I also want to prepare for the inevitable. I hope that you have a blessed holiday season as well.
Tom
Comment from Brett Matthew West
Making final preparations beforehand helps so much for those left behind.
Fortunately, with my cancer being what it is, I have.
Still, unexpected deaths cause so many different conflicts as you named some of.
Better to be prepared for the inevitable before it occurs because for all of us the time will arrive, on occasion much sooner than desired.
reply by the author on 07-Dec-2022
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Making final preparations beforehand helps so much for those left behind.
Fortunately, with my cancer being what it is, I have.
Still, unexpected deaths cause so many different conflicts as you named some of.
Better to be prepared for the inevitable before it occurs because for all of us the time will arrive, on occasion much sooner than desired.
Comment Written 07-Dec-2022
reply by the author on 07-Dec-2022
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Hello Brett,
I had no idea that you were suffering with cancer. I'm sorry to hear that. There are so many people dealing with cancer, what a horrible disease. I wish we could come up with a cure. I'll be praying for you.
Have a blessed evening.
Tom
Comment from aryr
How sad that this happened this way, Tom. Regardless of being a former hospice RN, it is devastating and heart wrenching when it happens. I really appreciated your sound advice. Very well done and sadly enjoyed. Blessings n because you truly need them, Hugs!!!
reply by the author on 05-Dec-2022
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How sad that this happened this way, Tom. Regardless of being a former hospice RN, it is devastating and heart wrenching when it happens. I really appreciated your sound advice. Very well done and sadly enjoyed. Blessings n because you truly need them, Hugs!!!
Comment Written 05-Dec-2022
reply by the author on 05-Dec-2022
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Thanks for your kind words aryr. My neighbor was going to Anchorage today to make arrangements. She's going to be cremated, so I guess there's no rush if he decides to wait if he's going to be burying her. The ground is frozen, and it's snowing here today. Honestly, I hope when I die, it's like spring or fall. I'd rather not pass in the summer, I don't want to miss out on the good weather, and in winter, it's already dark and cold, why add to the somber mood? I guess there isn't much I can do about it, but God knows how I feel. Thanks so much for your kind concern.
Have a blessed evening.
Tom
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You are so very welcome, Tom.
