The Worst Six Months Ever
I would freeze and start shaking when the phone would ring41 total reviews
Comment from davisr (Rhonda)
Oh my gosh, Debi, that's a terrible year!! Poor thing. I'm amazed at how well you've held up. I know you were mad at God for a while, but it seems you've rallied since, and I'm glad for it.
There was a two month span a few years back when we went to 6 funerals. Not as close your loved ones, but it does seem to pour when it rains.
Much love,
Rhonda
reply by the author on 01-Jan-2024
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Oh my gosh, Debi, that's a terrible year!! Poor thing. I'm amazed at how well you've held up. I know you were mad at God for a while, but it seems you've rallied since, and I'm glad for it.
There was a two month span a few years back when we went to 6 funerals. Not as close your loved ones, but it does seem to pour when it rains.
Much love,
Rhonda
Comment Written 01-Jan-2024
reply by the author on 01-Jan-2024
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Thanks so much Rhonda. I didn?t expect you to review it, you sweet wonderful friend. But it is amazing how special friends can make even the hardest times better. Thank you for being that friend. Lotsa Love, Debi
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I guess it was just habit, lol. I had heard you mention it before and hadn?t gone back. It was a good opportunity!
You?re right on friends, and good ones are hard to come by!
Love and hugs,
Rhonda
Comment from karenina
Sad? This is tragic! I know they say God never gives us more than we can handle...but weren't there times you thought He may have been overestimating your power to get through all of this? I've had cycles like this in my years...and I swear I wondered if I'd come out the other side!
SO sorry for your sorrows Debi... Even if I am very late reviewing this post.
Karenina
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Sad? This is tragic! I know they say God never gives us more than we can handle...but weren't there times you thought He may have been overestimating your power to get through all of this? I've had cycles like this in my years...and I swear I wondered if I'd come out the other side!
SO sorry for your sorrows Debi... Even if I am very late reviewing this post.
Karenina
Comment Written 17-Aug-2023
Comment from LisaMay
Having loving relationships leaves us vulnerable to pain. You write openly about your losses and grief and how they affected you and your daughter. Your words made me feel so sad for you. I hope time has softened these tragedies. Death of loved ones is always hard to understand, let alone a procession of losses that you have been burdened with. The only sense to be gained is to appreciate everyone we value in our lives every day. God's will is obscure to us. We must trust Him.
reply by the author on 16-May-2022
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Having loving relationships leaves us vulnerable to pain. You write openly about your losses and grief and how they affected you and your daughter. Your words made me feel so sad for you. I hope time has softened these tragedies. Death of loved ones is always hard to understand, let alone a procession of losses that you have been burdened with. The only sense to be gained is to appreciate everyone we value in our lives every day. God's will is obscure to us. We must trust Him.
Comment Written 16-May-2022
reply by the author on 16-May-2022
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LisaMay, I thank you so much, as I did leave out the worst of it, but now that I am in my sixties, I've come to expect it more, but back then I wasn't even 40 yet, and the walls were closing in on me. I think the worst was hearing my sweet daughter screaming NOOOOO, I just lost my grandma, I can't lose Danny too. Then I slept in her bed with her for almost 3 weeks, with her in my arms as she cried herself to sleep every night. I don't know if there is a worst pain, than watching your child in such pain. Sorry, I can't believe that it can still get to me so. Thank you for such a kind and caring review and true and lovely comments, as I now depend more on God to get me through the ones that hurt the most.
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We are very lucky to have Him to hand our worst burdens to. I am not a mother myself so I can only imagine the deep concern you felt for your poor daughter.
Comment from Paul McFarland
I don't know anyone who has gone through a six month period like you have. The smile on your face in your picture must have been before that awful six months.
reply by the author on 16-May-2022
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I don't know anyone who has gone through a six month period like you have. The smile on your face in your picture must have been before that awful six months.
Comment Written 16-May-2022
reply by the author on 16-May-2022
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Paul, I thank you so much for the lovely compliment. This was long before the picture, since that was taken 5 years ago while we were in Nashville.
I did leave out the worst of those 6 months, but now that I am in my sixties, I've come to expect it more. Back then I wasn't even 40 yet, and the walls were closing in on me. I think the worst was hearing my sweet daughter screaming NOOOOO, I just lost my grandma, I can't lose Danny too. Then I slept in her bed with her for almost 3 weeks, her in my arms as she cried herself to sleep every night. I don't know if there is a worst pain, than watching your child hurting. Sorry, I can't believe that it can still get to me so. Thank you Paul, for such a kind and caring review and words
Comment from Jannypan (Jan)
My sincere sympathy with the many losses you shared, Debi.
Your contest entry is well written though poignant. The rhymes
are good with smooth flow. Your theme is well expressed.
I pray you are able to deal with these reminders, though I
know you will never forget any of your loved ones that you
have included here.
Best wishes in the contest, Jan
reply by the author on 16-May-2022
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My sincere sympathy with the many losses you shared, Debi.
Your contest entry is well written though poignant. The rhymes
are good with smooth flow. Your theme is well expressed.
I pray you are able to deal with these reminders, though I
know you will never forget any of your loved ones that you
have included here.
Best wishes in the contest, Jan
Comment Written 16-May-2022
reply by the author on 16-May-2022
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Jan, I thank you, as I did leave out the worst of it, but now that I am in my sixties, I've come to expect it more, but back then I wasn't ever 40 yet, and the walls were closing in on me. I think the worst was hearing my sweet daughter screaming NOOOOO, I just lost my grandma, I can't lose Danny too. Then I slept in her bed with her for almost 3 weeks,, her in my arms as she cried herself to sleep every night. I don't know if there is a worst pain, than watching your child in such pain. Sorry, I can't believe that it can still get to me so. Thank you Jan for such a kind and caring review and words.
Comment from Ja Majal
Oh gosh this was terribly sad, and yet beautifully written
such a strange juxtapose of emotion. One of my aunts died a couple years back and it was extremely difficult to deal with, I can only imagine multiple deaths in such a short time, wow you are strong! Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing with us!!
reply by the author on 16-May-2022
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Oh gosh this was terribly sad, and yet beautifully written
such a strange juxtapose of emotion. One of my aunts died a couple years back and it was extremely difficult to deal with, I can only imagine multiple deaths in such a short time, wow you are strong! Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing with us!!
Comment Written 16-May-2022
reply by the author on 16-May-2022
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JaMajal, I just can't thank you enough for the kind review and comments!
It was the roughest time in my life. Now that I am in my sixties, it seems like its more and more, but we are to expect that. some are harder than others, but now I keep my faith in tact.
Back then, I wasn't even forty yet, so I took it harder especially where my children are concerned and we did love Danny like he was our own, as I'd like to explain in a minute. I've lost many in my life, but this was like continuously wondering what next?
Someone asked if this is fiction, but unfortunately every detail that I explained was true. In fact I left out all the worst parts; such as when Danny, my daughter's boyfriend left our house that night, he had already privately said his goodbyes to my daughter, then right before he got in his car, he gave me a kiss and said "goodbye mom, I love you." (He always called me mom) We begged him to stay, as it was so foggy, but said he had to go see his parents. The words he spoke to me would be his last. He drove almost the whole 7 miles to their home, but missed the curve that he had driven a hundred times. His car went off the embankment, started on fire and he burned to death. We had a visit from a cop at midnight and asked many questions, as they couldn't identity his body. My sweet girl started screaming, no no I just lost my grandma, I can't lose Danny too. I couldn't mourn properly as I had to be strong for her, and his parents who were good friends of ours. I remember sleeping in her bed with her for over 2 weeks as she cried herself to sleep in my arms. I hated God for a while, but He never gave up on me, as He brought us out of the darkness the next year, and showed how much He loved us with His Grace and Mercy, and shown us many blessings since. Now that I am in my 60s, it seems it someone new every week, but like you said, we come to expect it, and keeping God close really helps that too, as some are still not easy. Thanks again my friend for the most awesome review and kind comments!
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OH MY GOD!!!! That is gruesome. I am so sorryyyyyyyy. I know it hasn't been easy but I am glad you found comfort in the rod and staff of the Shepherd in your worst times! A lot of people would have lost their mind!!
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You are so very kind, as you are so right! I wonder how some people get by w/o Jesus in their live. Thank you again for your compassionate words. Debi
Comment from duchessofdrumborg
'The Worst Six Months Ever', is an exceptionally well-written and heart-tearing piece. This talented poet's was a challenge just to read. God bless and keep you. From now on you're on my prayer list.
reply by the author on 16-May-2022
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'The Worst Six Months Ever', is an exceptionally well-written and heart-tearing piece. This talented poet's was a challenge just to read. God bless and keep you. From now on you're on my prayer list.
Comment Written 16-May-2022
reply by the author on 16-May-2022
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Thank you your highness!
Comment from R.B.Bunn
This was heavy. I don't know if I could've handled all of that in such a short period of time. This piece really just kept me anxious as I read, dreading the next boot to fall. This was very well written. I'm hoping your doing better now. Thanks for sharing.
reply by the author on 15-May-2022
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This was heavy. I don't know if I could've handled all of that in such a short period of time. This piece really just kept me anxious as I read, dreading the next boot to fall. This was very well written. I'm hoping your doing better now. Thanks for sharing.
Comment Written 15-May-2022
reply by the author on 15-May-2022
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I am fine, as that was over 25 years ago. But thank you so much. I spared much of the worst details, but amazing how hard it was to relive it, just like it was yesterday. Thank you for the very kind review and caring comments my friend!
Comment from evesayshi
In my opinion, I hope this rating will offer at least a brief respite, since this is the best I can offer or do. I am awed by your resilience and courage and send my love and support to you and your family for all you have endured...
reply by the author on 15-May-2022
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In my opinion, I hope this rating will offer at least a brief respite, since this is the best I can offer or do. I am awed by your resilience and courage and send my love and support to you and your family for all you have endured...
Comment Written 15-May-2022
reply by the author on 15-May-2022
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Eve, Like I just noted in my message to you, I am so very appreciative for you giving me these generous six stars and beautiful review. You are such a lovely friend and I just can't thank you enough! It was the roughest time in my life. Now that I am in my sixties, it seems like its more and more, but we are to expect that. some are harder than others, but now I keep my faith in tact.
Back then, I wasn't even forty yet, so I took it harder especially where my children are concerned and we did love Danny like he was our own, as I'd like to explain in a minute. I've lost many in my life, but this was like continuously wondering what next?
Someone asked if this is fiction, but unfortunately every detail that I explained was true. In fact I left out all the worst parts; such as when Danny, my daughter's boyfriend left our house that night, he had already privately said his goodbyes to my daughter, then right before he got in his car, he gave me a kiss and said "goodbye mom, I love you." (He always called me mom) We begged him to stay, as it was so foggy, but said he had to go see his parents. The words he spoke to me would be his last. He drove almost the whole 7 miles to their home, but missed the curve that he had driven a hundred times. His car went off the embankment, started on fire and he burned to death. We had a visit from a cop at midnight and asked many questions, as they couldn't identity his body. My sweet girl started screaming, no no I just lost my grandma, I can't lose Danny too. I couldn't mourn properly as I had to be strong for her, and his parents who were good friends of ours. I remember sleeping in her bed with her for over 2 weeks as she cried herself to sleep in my arms. I hated God for a while, but He never gave up on me, as He brought us out of the darkness the next year, and showed how much He loved us with His Grace and Mercy, and shown us many blessings since. Now that I am in my 60s, it seems it someone new every week, but like you said, we come to expect it, and keeping God close really helps that too, as some are still not easy. Thanks again my friend for the most awesome review from the most awesome woman!
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Oh, my dear Debi, you are so very welcome - I wish it were in my power to do more, but you have the greatest advocate on your side to hold you in dark days. He is always there for you and always will be - our Heavenly Father's arms are strong and ever available. At your 60's you have a long road ahead, I am confident of that. I am 83 and still have a long way to go "before I sleep'...Eve
Comment from Sandra Stoner-Mitchell
Aww, Debi, what a horrible, horrible time you had. We all lose our loved ones, and the older I'm getting, the more of my family and friends I'm losing. At my age, it's to be expected. But not when they could have had many more years to bring us joy. This is such a sad poem, and you used the contest well. I can't imagine the pain you suffered. I'm so sorry, my friend. Well done for writing this, and good luck in the contest. :)) Sandra xx
reply by the author on 15-May-2022
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Aww, Debi, what a horrible, horrible time you had. We all lose our loved ones, and the older I'm getting, the more of my family and friends I'm losing. At my age, it's to be expected. But not when they could have had many more years to bring us joy. This is such a sad poem, and you used the contest well. I can't imagine the pain you suffered. I'm so sorry, my friend. Well done for writing this, and good luck in the contest. :)) Sandra xx
Comment Written 15-May-2022
reply by the author on 15-May-2022
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Sandra, thank you so very much for such a lovely and kind review.
I've lost many in my life, but this was like continuously wondering what next?
Someone else asked if this is fiction, but unfortunately every detail that I explained was true. In fact I left out all the worst parts; such as when Danny, my daughter's boyfriend left our house that night, he had already privately said his goodbyes to my daughter, then right before he got in his car, he gave me a kiss and said "goodbye mom, I love you." (He always called me mom) We begged him to stay, as it was so foggy, but said he had to go see his parents. The words he spoke to me would be his last. He drove almost the whole 7 miles to their home, but missed the curve that he had driven a hundred times. His car went off the embankment, started on fire and he burned to death. We had a visit from a cop at midnight and asked many questions, as they couldn't identity his body. My sweet girl started screaming, no no I just lost my grandma, I can't lose Danny too. I couldn't mourn properly as I had to be strong for her, and his parents who were good friends of ours. I remember sleeping in her bed with her for over 2 weeks as she cried herself to sleep in my arms. I hated God for a while, but He never gave up on me, as He brought us out of the darkness the next year, and showed how much He loved us with His Grace and Mercy, and shown us many blessings since. Now that I am in my 60s, it seems it someone new every week, but like you said, we come to expect it, and keeping God close really helps that too, as some are still not easy. Thanks again my friend!
