I am not my Wheelchair
A life changing realization35 total reviews
Comment from dragonpoet
Hi Jesse,
I know this is old. But it is relevant to you and anyone in a wheel-chair. We need to see and accept them as people who have all the mind and abilities of all of us but just can't walk. It is always right to acknowledge anyone you see.
Keep writing and stay healthy
Joan
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Hi Jesse,
I know this is old. But it is relevant to you and anyone in a wheel-chair. We need to see and accept them as people who have all the mind and abilities of all of us but just can't walk. It is always right to acknowledge anyone you see.
Keep writing and stay healthy
Joan
Comment Written 16-Jul-2023
Comment from Julcia
Thank you for this well thought out non-fiction work. You appear to enjoy being
a positive thinking type person. Congratulations on your abilities.
I am in a chair and find it hard to keep negativity at bay. I have been helped
by meditation,stress management and pain management sessions. I find it
helpful to pray.
I am concerned that your constant positive attitude is a bit of a facade and
not reflective of your true feelings. Chip off some clay and allow your
mix of feelings to emerge. Allow yourself growth experiences that self
awareness can bring.
reply by the author on 08-May-2022
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Thank you for this well thought out non-fiction work. You appear to enjoy being
a positive thinking type person. Congratulations on your abilities.
I am in a chair and find it hard to keep negativity at bay. I have been helped
by meditation,stress management and pain management sessions. I find it
helpful to pray.
I am concerned that your constant positive attitude is a bit of a facade and
not reflective of your true feelings. Chip off some clay and allow your
mix of feelings to emerge. Allow yourself growth experiences that self
awareness can bring.
Comment Written 07-May-2022
reply by the author on 08-May-2022
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Thank you for your review. I am sorry that you find it hard to keep negativity at bay.
I think it is a sad day when a positive-sounding person is told that their attitude is a facade. Each writer has the freedom to choose what they want to write about.
I choose to be positive. Enough said.
Jesse
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I am sorry that I offended you, Please accept my apology for my rudeness. You
are a role model, a great example of
the power of positive thinking.I have
hurt your very soul by thoughtlessness.
Sincerely.
Julcia
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Your apology is gratefully accepted.
Thank you for offering it.
My soul is not hurt, so please, don't worry about it.
Have a beautiful day,
Jesse
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Jesse, I am relieved you accepted my
apology. Usually I am not so blatantly
insensitive.
Julcia
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That is good to know. Let's start over again and take it from now.
Who knows, we could end up becoming good friends on this site.
Have a wonderful Sunday!
Jesse
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May you also have a great day!
Julcia
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I will try with all my might to have the best day possible!
Jesse
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Jesse,
Good for you. Enjoy.
Julcia
Comment from LisaMay
Our dreams show our true desires and self-value. I admire your attitude hugely. Everyone else should see you as you see yourself - it is usually other people who put limitations on us. I hope and pray for you that your operation is soon and that you can enjoy walking those nature trails on your own two feet beside David.
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Our dreams show our true desires and self-value. I admire your attitude hugely. Everyone else should see you as you see yourself - it is usually other people who put limitations on us. I hope and pray for you that your operation is soon and that you can enjoy walking those nature trails on your own two feet beside David.
Comment Written 10-Apr-2022
Comment from Mrs. KT
Hello, Jesse!
I am sorry to have missed your fine essay; we were in Colorado when you posted, and I did not have the access to my computer that I usually enjoy.
I have every confidence that you will walk again! Your determination and perseverance shine through brightly. I so hope your operation is soon!
Thank you for sharing and best wishes!
diane
reply by the author on 07-Apr-2022
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Hello, Jesse!
I am sorry to have missed your fine essay; we were in Colorado when you posted, and I did not have the access to my computer that I usually enjoy.
I have every confidence that you will walk again! Your determination and perseverance shine through brightly. I so hope your operation is soon!
Thank you for sharing and best wishes!
diane
Comment Written 03-Apr-2022
reply by the author on 07-Apr-2022
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Good morning, Diane!
Thank you for this wonderful surprise of an exceptional rating and encouraging review.
Thanks for your confidence booster and I too hope my operation comes soon.
I am going in for a consultation in a couple of weeks and hope they give the go-ahead and do it right away. I will have to wait and see.
Welcome back, my friend, and best wishes to you as well.
Jesse
Comment from MissMerri
What a powerful statement you have made here Jesse. Of course you are not the wheelchair that carries you, nor the clothes you wear or the food you eat. You are the person who lives inside of your skin. I hope your knee gets the attention it needs soon because I want you to be able to walk those nature paths you so much enjoy. Your writing is excellent and without a blemish, just like your triumphant spirit. Best wishes in all you do. MM
reply by the author on 03-Apr-2022
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What a powerful statement you have made here Jesse. Of course you are not the wheelchair that carries you, nor the clothes you wear or the food you eat. You are the person who lives inside of your skin. I hope your knee gets the attention it needs soon because I want you to be able to walk those nature paths you so much enjoy. Your writing is excellent and without a blemish, just like your triumphant spirit. Best wishes in all you do. MM
Comment Written 03-Apr-2022
reply by the author on 03-Apr-2022
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Wow, what a lovely surprise this morning!
Yes, of course, I am not all those things you mentioned. I am me!
Thanks for the inspiring and encouraging review, my friend!
Your kind words are so appreciated!
I hope, as well, that I get my left knee fixed so, that I can walk again, and real soon!
Thanks for the exceptional rating and review, and may you have a marvelous day!
Your friend,
Jesse
Comment from Janet Foor
You are an inspiration Jesse to all those who are struggling with adversity. Your resilience and "can do" attitude are heartwarming to read. Thank you for sharing your story.
Well done.
Blessings and keep the faith.
Janet
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You are an inspiration Jesse to all those who are struggling with adversity. Your resilience and "can do" attitude are heartwarming to read. Thank you for sharing your story.
Well done.
Blessings and keep the faith.
Janet
Comment Written 29-Mar-2022
Comment from sunnilicious
That was a great story. I am sorry that it had to be true. Very inspirational and inspiring. You have a nice outlook for betterment. I do pray that your surgery brings you back to normal if not better. Wonderful work. Hearts & hugs :)
reply by the author on 03-Apr-2022
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That was a great story. I am sorry that it had to be true. Very inspirational and inspiring. You have a nice outlook for betterment. I do pray that your surgery brings you back to normal if not better. Wonderful work. Hearts & hugs :)
Comment Written 29-Mar-2022
reply by the author on 03-Apr-2022
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Sorry for the delay. Life has gotten in the way. Thank you for the exceptional rating and review! I appreciate your kind words and your prayers for my surgery to turn out right. My knee will never be normal again but perhaps it will be even better!
Have a wonderful day,
Jesse
Comment from Pam (respa)
-Nice image and essay to go with it, Jesse.
-I didn't know you were waiting on knee surgery.
-Why does it keep getting postponed?
-You do a good job showing what you
see in your dreams and how you are
determined to make them real.
-I think getting the walking sticks was
a good idea and can serve as extra motivation.
-I also like your last two paragraphs that
include the dream and the message of
seeing you as you are, "myself, standing proud and free."
-Thoughts are with you, and I think your
determination will take you a long way.
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-Nice image and essay to go with it, Jesse.
-I didn't know you were waiting on knee surgery.
-Why does it keep getting postponed?
-You do a good job showing what you
see in your dreams and how you are
determined to make them real.
-I think getting the walking sticks was
a good idea and can serve as extra motivation.
-I also like your last two paragraphs that
include the dream and the message of
seeing you as you are, "myself, standing proud and free."
-Thoughts are with you, and I think your
determination will take you a long way.
Comment Written 28-Mar-2022
Comment from Marienkiefer
Hello,
-A lovely story of resilience, keeping hope alive.
-You keep hope alive in this story and dreams living.
Thank you for this story and sharing another perspective that does not park us and leave us stationary in our observations.
-What I like must about your piece is it's conversation.
-Very well done.
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Hello,
-A lovely story of resilience, keeping hope alive.
-You keep hope alive in this story and dreams living.
Thank you for this story and sharing another perspective that does not park us and leave us stationary in our observations.
-What I like must about your piece is it's conversation.
-Very well done.
Comment Written 27-Mar-2022
Comment from Cindy Decker 2
Jesse,
This is very-well written and inspirational true story.
Your words, like 'notice me, rather than what I am riding in,'
makes such a good point about how society views some persons with disabilities.
Sometimes (dis)- abilities enable us to have newfound courage in living, and give us a lot of strength we earned.
Your cogent arguments are exceptional and eloquently written.
Good luck and best wishes,
Cindy
reply by the author on 03-Apr-2022
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Jesse,
This is very-well written and inspirational true story.
Your words, like 'notice me, rather than what I am riding in,'
makes such a good point about how society views some persons with disabilities.
Sometimes (dis)- abilities enable us to have newfound courage in living, and give us a lot of strength we earned.
Your cogent arguments are exceptional and eloquently written.
Good luck and best wishes,
Cindy
Comment Written 27-Mar-2022
reply by the author on 03-Apr-2022
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Thanks, Cindy, and sorry for the delay! Life has a way of getting in the way. I love your encouraging comments, and you make a lot of great points! I appreciate your arguments in favor of those who are disabled. We often need to earn our strength and conviction.
Thank you for your good luck wishes,
and may your days always be bright!
Jesse
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You?re welcome, Jesse.
Thank you for your words of encouragement. My disabilities do not define me either, but they?ve given me much needed strength. Those of us who sometimes have to work harder in life are better for it.
Good luck, Jesse, with all of your endeavors.
Blessings,
Cindy
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I have heard it said that adversity builds courage. I would have to agree.
Best wishes to you as well!
Jesse
