Wedding Bell Blues
Vaccinations and Virtual Invitations28 total reviews
Comment from karenina
Yes. Email wedding invitations are all the rage these days. My nephew is getting married in January 2022 -- also found on!y SPAM folder. (smile)-- so what's up? Will Lauren get special dispensation and get to attend her brother's wedding! Geez. I am way over this Covid stuff. --
Karenina
reply by the author on 14-Sep-2021
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Yes. Email wedding invitations are all the rage these days. My nephew is getting married in January 2022 -- also found on!y SPAM folder. (smile)-- so what's up? Will Lauren get special dispensation and get to attend her brother's wedding! Geez. I am way over this Covid stuff. --
Karenina
Comment Written 14-Sep-2021
reply by the author on 14-Sep-2021
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Lauren's upset because her brother got testy about her boyfriend not being vaccinated-(he gives her a pass on account of her special circumstances).
Someone just told me that thank you notes have gone by the wayside--I'm shocked!
The bride's mother has terminal cancer and has passed the expected "expiration" date--they're worried she'll croak right before--or during--the wedding! Thanks for stopping by--always nice to see you.
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Not in MY family thank you notes are "by the wayside!"--- LOL---I'd be drawn and quartered if I didn't provide one whenever appropriate! (I have a lot of VERY senior citizens who cluck their tongues a lot!--Karenina
Comment from Lobber
hi,
it's not just elegance that's been thrown out the window, so have common sense and courtesy. I would have asked him to attend tea at your house (in celebration of his wedding) and made him jump through the same directorial hoops (or is it hoopla)?
. Lobber
reply by the author on 13-Sep-2021
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hi,
it's not just elegance that's been thrown out the window, so have common sense and courtesy. I would have asked him to attend tea at your house (in celebration of his wedding) and made him jump through the same directorial hoops (or is it hoopla)?
. Lobber
Comment Written 12-Sep-2021
reply by the author on 13-Sep-2021
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Thanks for stopping by. The bride's mother has terminal cancer and has passed the expected "expiration" date--they're worried she'll croak right before--or during--the wedding!
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How inconsiderate of her. Perhaps you or someone else can use her invitation.
Lobber
Comment from SHABAMO
I definitely understand the frustration of the different events that have been so modified when they should be joyous occasions into those marred by COVID. Well written tale and word choice throughout.
reply by the author on 13-Sep-2021
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I definitely understand the frustration of the different events that have been so modified when they should be joyous occasions into those marred by COVID. Well written tale and word choice throughout.
Comment Written 11-Sep-2021
reply by the author on 13-Sep-2021
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The bride's mother has terminal cancer and has passed the expected "expiration" date--they're worried she'll croak right before--or during--the wedding!
Comment from muffinmama
First of all, congratulations on your son's upcoming nuptials!
I too miss the days of beautifully engraved invitations; they added such glamour and gravitas to the occasion. But what disappoints me the most about today's wedding events is that the married couple are no longer expected to send out thank you cards. When my daughter got married 7 years ago, I noticed that the stationery packet did not include thank you notes. Thinking it was a SNAFU by the printer, I quickly called her to tell her to get on the phone and have him print up cards ASAP. She looked at me as though I was a lunatic and said, what thank you cards? She herself had never received one from any of the weddings she had attended.
Thinking it might be an issue specific to this country, I waited for a thank you card to arrive from my niece, who was married in Canada. I waited in vain. Really? Has it come to that?
reply by the author on 13-Sep-2021
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First of all, congratulations on your son's upcoming nuptials!
I too miss the days of beautifully engraved invitations; they added such glamour and gravitas to the occasion. But what disappoints me the most about today's wedding events is that the married couple are no longer expected to send out thank you cards. When my daughter got married 7 years ago, I noticed that the stationery packet did not include thank you notes. Thinking it was a SNAFU by the printer, I quickly called her to tell her to get on the phone and have him print up cards ASAP. She looked at me as though I was a lunatic and said, what thank you cards? She herself had never received one from any of the weddings she had attended.
Thinking it might be an issue specific to this country, I waited for a thank you card to arrive from my niece, who was married in Canada. I waited in vain. Really? Has it come to that?
Comment Written 11-Sep-2021
reply by the author on 13-Sep-2021
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Shocking! I haven't been to a wedding in ten years--I was a guest so I don't know if a note was received.
The bride's mother has terminal cancer and has passed the expected "expiration" date--they're worried she'll croak right before--or during--the wedding!
Comment from zanya
A tale telling of our strange and pandemic days where sometimes it is difficult to decipher what world we are living in- is it virtual or real ? it illustrates effectively just how it impacts our everyday life and living. Good wishes to the couple.
reply by the author on 13-Sep-2021
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A tale telling of our strange and pandemic days where sometimes it is difficult to decipher what world we are living in- is it virtual or real ? it illustrates effectively just how it impacts our everyday life and living. Good wishes to the couple.
Comment Written 11-Sep-2021
reply by the author on 13-Sep-2021
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The bride's mother has terminal cancer and has passed the expected "expiration" date--they're worried she'll croak right before--or during--the wedding! Thanks for stopping by.
Comment from Janetsue
Our modern world does not always have empathy in social areas and often the quickest way is considered to be the best way. A lot has been lost by not communicating face to face as much as in the past. The personal touch is being lost in a lot of areas.
reply by the author on 13-Sep-2021
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Our modern world does not always have empathy in social areas and often the quickest way is considered to be the best way. A lot has been lost by not communicating face to face as much as in the past. The personal touch is being lost in a lot of areas.
Comment Written 10-Sep-2021
reply by the author on 13-Sep-2021
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Someone just told me that thank you notes have gone by the wayside--I'm shocked!
The bride's mother has terminal cancer and has passed the expected "expiration" date--they're worried she'll croak right before--or during--the wedding! Thanks for stopping by--always nice to see you.
Comment from Jannypan (Jan)
You did a great job expressing your thoughts and feelings about the invitation, Liz. I believe those links attached to the wedding invitation take away from the beauty of the invitation to begin with. I realize it's to protect all attending, but it seems so impersonal. That's just my opinion, and I'm sure the couple could care less.
Respectfully, Jan
reply by the author on 13-Sep-2021
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You did a great job expressing your thoughts and feelings about the invitation, Liz. I believe those links attached to the wedding invitation take away from the beauty of the invitation to begin with. I realize it's to protect all attending, but it seems so impersonal. That's just my opinion, and I'm sure the couple could care less.
Respectfully, Jan
Comment Written 10-Sep-2021
reply by the author on 13-Sep-2021
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Someone just told me that thank you notes have gone by the wayside--I'm shocked!
The bride's mother has terminal cancer and has passed the expected "expiration" date--they're worried she'll croak right before--or during--the wedding! Thanks for stopping by--always nice to see you.
Comment from LJbutterfly
It's sixty years later, and we find ourselves living in Rod Sterling's Twilight Zone which was a mix of SyFy, horror and drama. You've just written the latest episode about a killer virus, proving you are, or are not an alien, (depending on vax status), and written messages sent through air waves. People of the 60's wouldn't believe your story, but I enjoyed it.
reply by the author on 13-Sep-2021
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It's sixty years later, and we find ourselves living in Rod Sterling's Twilight Zone which was a mix of SyFy, horror and drama. You've just written the latest episode about a killer virus, proving you are, or are not an alien, (depending on vax status), and written messages sent through air waves. People of the 60's wouldn't believe your story, but I enjoyed it.
Comment Written 10-Sep-2021
reply by the author on 13-Sep-2021
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Someone just told me that thank you notes have gone by the wayside--I'm shocked!
The bride's mother has terminal cancer and has passed the expected "expiration" date--they're worried she'll croak right before--or during--the wedding! Thanks for stopping by--always nice to see you.
Comment from Mary Shifman
I too, am saddened by the lost of elegance of receiving actual cards and invitations in the mail. I often find emails from people I often email in the Spam folder. Now I ask you, who is the darned computer to decided when my mail is Spam. Unless the email is about male enhancements drugs or some such nonsense, I want to be the one to toss it! Good essay and much enjoyed!
reply by the author on 13-Sep-2021
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I too, am saddened by the lost of elegance of receiving actual cards and invitations in the mail. I often find emails from people I often email in the Spam folder. Now I ask you, who is the darned computer to decided when my mail is Spam. Unless the email is about male enhancements drugs or some such nonsense, I want to be the one to toss it! Good essay and much enjoyed!
Comment Written 10-Sep-2021
reply by the author on 13-Sep-2021
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Someone just told me that thank you notes have gone by the wayside--I'm shocked!
The bride's mother has terminal cancer and has passed the expected "expiration" date--they're worried she'll croak right before--or during--the wedding! Thanks for stopping by--always nice to see you.
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You are very welcome. I always enjoy reading your posts. I hadn't heard about Thank you notes! Perhaps that's why I never get one from my nieces when I give them gifts! I hope the wedding goes on without an incident!
Comment from Judy Lawless
Wow, I wonder how many others might have missed the invitation among their many emails! Having the restrictions about COVID I fully do agree with. It's not over yet and care must still be taken. I'm sorry your daughter had chosen not to get vaccinated, unless her doctor advised against it.
reply by the author on 13-Sep-2021
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Wow, I wonder how many others might have missed the invitation among their many emails! Having the restrictions about COVID I fully do agree with. It's not over yet and care must still be taken. I'm sorry your daughter had chosen not to get vaccinated, unless her doctor advised against it.
Comment Written 10-Sep-2021
reply by the author on 13-Sep-2021
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Someone just told me that thank you notes have gone by the wayside--I'm shocked!
The bride's mother has terminal cancer and has passed the expected "expiration" date--they're worried she'll croak right before--or during--the wedding! Thanks for stopping by--always nice to see you.
Her doctor advised her to get vaccinated.
