Today's Court of Opinion
Was it time or did someone help...27 total reviews
Comment from Iza Deleanu
You are right to call that idiot Darkness, I will not waste the title doctor on this idiot. The doctor 's job is to safe a life and not take one. He should be not allowed to practice medicine again. Thank you for sharing and I hope justice was served.
reply by the author on 29-May-2021
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You are right to call that idiot Darkness, I will not waste the title doctor on this idiot. The doctor 's job is to safe a life and not take one. He should be not allowed to practice medicine again. Thank you for sharing and I hope justice was served.
Comment Written 29-May-2021
reply by the author on 29-May-2021
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I believe justice will lie in the eyes of the Lord someday and I hope Mr. Darkness can find a way to explain his actions. Thanks for the kind review, Iza. Smiles, Carol
Comment from barbara.wilkey
It sounds that Dr. Darkness is not a good doctor. He should concentrate on making lives better, not dying. I think he's guilty. I enjoyed and approve of your jury selection.
reply by the author on 29-May-2021
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It sounds that Dr. Darkness is not a good doctor. He should concentrate on making lives better, not dying. I think he's guilty. I enjoyed and approve of your jury selection.
Comment Written 29-May-2021
reply by the author on 29-May-2021
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I think he will answer to God in the end because I'm positive we were not his only patient that fell to his belief that one must surrender to death. thanks for the kind review. Smiles, Carol
Comment from Sally Law
Blind Girl here. I was, in real life, the caretaker of my mother-in-law. My husband and I pulled her out of a nursing home and brought her here with us to live. She lived here four years. The last six months, we had extensive help and Hospice care. I did 30 loads of wash a week.
The first time we called for Hospice, she was denied, the second time, accepted. It was two years between the first and second.
For You~
First: You need to contact a wrongful death attorney and get all of this recorded on paper and documented. You appear to have a case here. A physician takes the hippocratic of which in essence means: I will abstain from all wrong doing and harm. Doctors violate this all the time, unfortunately.
Second: Contest the hospital's administrator. He reports to them. Tell them of your concerns. File a complaint at this level. I am sure, he has many more victims.
Third: Find out what Medicare does and doesn't provide for. I know personally there are limitations. You should have been advised of these on behalf of your husband. The hospital tried to let my mother in law out prematurely one time and I called the administrator from her room. They gave her an extension and ran more tests. Yep! Do not let the hospital or the doctors tell you what is best...ever!
Receive their counsel, yes, but act according to what you feel is best for you and your loved one.
I hope this is helpful. Blessings to the mock jury. I think you have a good case and justified concern.
Sending you my best and blessings always,
Sal XOs...The Blind Girl....
reply by the author on 27-May-2021
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Blind Girl here. I was, in real life, the caretaker of my mother-in-law. My husband and I pulled her out of a nursing home and brought her here with us to live. She lived here four years. The last six months, we had extensive help and Hospice care. I did 30 loads of wash a week.
The first time we called for Hospice, she was denied, the second time, accepted. It was two years between the first and second.
For You~
First: You need to contact a wrongful death attorney and get all of this recorded on paper and documented. You appear to have a case here. A physician takes the hippocratic of which in essence means: I will abstain from all wrong doing and harm. Doctors violate this all the time, unfortunately.
Second: Contest the hospital's administrator. He reports to them. Tell them of your concerns. File a complaint at this level. I am sure, he has many more victims.
Third: Find out what Medicare does and doesn't provide for. I know personally there are limitations. You should have been advised of these on behalf of your husband. The hospital tried to let my mother in law out prematurely one time and I called the administrator from her room. They gave her an extension and ran more tests. Yep! Do not let the hospital or the doctors tell you what is best...ever!
Receive their counsel, yes, but act according to what you feel is best for you and your loved one.
I hope this is helpful. Blessings to the mock jury. I think you have a good case and justified concern.
Sending you my best and blessings always,
Sal XOs...The Blind Girl....
Comment Written 27-May-2021
reply by the author on 27-May-2021
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Hello Sally, I hope you don't mind that I took liberties with your story so that I could include you in mine. As for Mike, I miss him terribly, but nothing can change that. His girls stopped talking to me when I said we needed to pursue charges. They said he was sick and I should just let him rest in peace. So I will.
The Dr. will face our Lord someday, and he will have to answer for his wrongdoings.
It's just some days things get to me and yesterday was one of them... I struggled to make it into something else by using the "mock jury," but deep inside, I struggled. At least I have the comfort knowing I am not the only one who believes Mike was taken by someone other than God. My family made me feel like I was crazy.
Thanks for sharing and letting me know how others have struggled with the same. I appreciate it. Hugs and smiles my dear friend, Carol
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You are most welcome. I would at least speak to the hospital administrator and file a formal complaint. Mike may not have been his only victim. You'd think a doctor would value life? Yes, he will definitely stand before the Lord Almighty! Blessings and love, dear Carol, Sal XOs...
Comment from justafan
This hit home with me. My mother at age 52 needed to have the veins in her neck scrapped for plaque which were breaking off and causing temporary paralysis in her arm. She too was on Medicaid and when admitted to the hospital it was a teaching one, therefore she got a resident as her attending.
She went in on a Sunday evening, Monday they scoped her arteries going in through her groin. She returned to her room throwing up and this only stopped when they put a tube down her throat.
My mother had 7 sisters who all came home when we learned on Monday that she needed brain surgery for an aneurism before they could do the veins in her neck. We took turns staying with my mom who was never herself after her procedure.
Her blood pressure went to stroke level and my Aunts tried getting her Dr. to come check her to no avail. So on Wednesday evening they went to the ER and got a Dr. from there to come look at my mom.
She looked at my moms chart and immediately noticed she had not been given her blood pressure meds.
My Aunts called me at 11pm and said they were moving Mom to ICU to get her pressure down and give her pain meds.
15 minutes later they called back and told me to get to the hospital Mom was in trouble.
My mom died shortly after getting to ICU.
Her lack of care was her death sentence.
I wanted justice for my mom because I was angry, in fact I still am. But because it was a teaching hospital I could do nothing. I tried.
The only satisfaction I got was once I saw her Dr. having lunch in the hospital cafeteria and took my children to his table and said...Kids this is the Dr. who killed your Grandmother, and walked away.
So, your Dr. Darkness was probably the spawn of my own evil Dr. Dark.
I would never have been allowed to serve on your jury because I would have strung him up repeatedly in my mind.
Wonderful work. It got me riled as you can see. Sorry
Always
Justafan of yours
Missy
reply by the author on 27-May-2021
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This hit home with me. My mother at age 52 needed to have the veins in her neck scrapped for plaque which were breaking off and causing temporary paralysis in her arm. She too was on Medicaid and when admitted to the hospital it was a teaching one, therefore she got a resident as her attending.
She went in on a Sunday evening, Monday they scoped her arteries going in through her groin. She returned to her room throwing up and this only stopped when they put a tube down her throat.
My mother had 7 sisters who all came home when we learned on Monday that she needed brain surgery for an aneurism before they could do the veins in her neck. We took turns staying with my mom who was never herself after her procedure.
Her blood pressure went to stroke level and my Aunts tried getting her Dr. to come check her to no avail. So on Wednesday evening they went to the ER and got a Dr. from there to come look at my mom.
She looked at my moms chart and immediately noticed she had not been given her blood pressure meds.
My Aunts called me at 11pm and said they were moving Mom to ICU to get her pressure down and give her pain meds.
15 minutes later they called back and told me to get to the hospital Mom was in trouble.
My mom died shortly after getting to ICU.
Her lack of care was her death sentence.
I wanted justice for my mom because I was angry, in fact I still am. But because it was a teaching hospital I could do nothing. I tried.
The only satisfaction I got was once I saw her Dr. having lunch in the hospital cafeteria and took my children to his table and said...Kids this is the Dr. who killed your Grandmother, and walked away.
So, your Dr. Darkness was probably the spawn of my own evil Dr. Dark.
I would never have been allowed to serve on your jury because I would have strung him up repeatedly in my mind.
Wonderful work. It got me riled as you can see. Sorry
Always
Justafan of yours
Missy
Comment Written 27-May-2021
reply by the author on 27-May-2021
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I am so sorry for your loss and for the mistreatment. We all tend to believe all doctors want the best for their patients and all really are concerned...Unfortunately, that's a fallacy. This particular doctor believed Mike had overstayed his welcome on earth and I needed to send him to the hereafter. I can hate him... but I would so like to be the fly on the wall when he tries to justify his methods to our Lord. Thank you Sweetie for the kind review. Since we seem to be so much alike...I'd like to think your Mom and my Honey are friends watching over us. Smiles, Carol
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I for one, don't think either of these Dr. deserve the title nor to be able to do to others what they did to us.
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You are so right!
Comment from Teri7
This was a very interesting and well written post for Todays Court of Opinions. You used very good descriptive words and lots of good Fanstory people to serve. You used a very neat picture and I really enjoyed reading this. I believe Mike was entitled to every day he had left on this earth. Thanks for the entertaining read. love and blessings, teri
reply by the author on 27-May-2021
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This was a very interesting and well written post for Todays Court of Opinions. You used very good descriptive words and lots of good Fanstory people to serve. You used a very neat picture and I really enjoyed reading this. I believe Mike was entitled to every day he had left on this earth. Thanks for the entertaining read. love and blessings, teri
Comment Written 27-May-2021
reply by the author on 27-May-2021
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Thanks Teri... I've written some other ones that aren't part of my big story that I felt you would have loved as well. the picture was Mike only days before he passed away. Unfortunately, a doctor decided instead of God, but Mike's in the best of hands now. Smiles, Carol
Comment from Dolly'sPoems
If this is your husband in the picture and he has had surgery? I wish him all the best and I hope he is able to cope with this life changing course in life. I have no idea what the court is about you mention here? I am glad the doctors did not give up anyway, love Dolly x
reply by the author on 27-May-2021
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If this is your husband in the picture and he has had surgery? I wish him all the best and I hope he is able to cope with this life changing course in life. I have no idea what the court is about you mention here? I am glad the doctors did not give up anyway, love Dolly x
Comment Written 27-May-2021
reply by the author on 27-May-2021
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Thank you for taking the time to read. As it says in the story, a doctor decided to disconnect and remove all assistance to keep my husband alive while I was absent from the hospital one night. The next day he went into a coma and passed away. The court story was asking your opinion on whether it was God's plan or the doctors'. They did give up on him, and I didn't. He's in God's hands, so he now has the best of care. Thank you, Carol
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Oh Carol, I am so sorry or your loss, I am sorry I didn?t understand your words and my thoughts are with you, love Dolly x
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Oh Carol, I am so sorry or your loss, I am sorry I didn?t understand your words and my thoughts are with you, love Dolly x
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Not at all a problem, Dolly. You haven't followed my stories so you would not have known. Thank you
Comment from Wendy G
Congratulations. Your work is superb. The creativity and imagination you have shown in setting up a courtroom scene and choosing the judge and jury, and then presenting the case to be considered are remarkable. Although not involved in the judgment I would say that Dr Darkness was arrogant and presumptuous and guilty of putting himself in the place of God.
Yes your husband was dying - and so are we all approaching death, even from the day we were born. God should be the ons who decides the time for the final breath.
reply by the author on 27-May-2021
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Congratulations. Your work is superb. The creativity and imagination you have shown in setting up a courtroom scene and choosing the judge and jury, and then presenting the case to be considered are remarkable. Although not involved in the judgment I would say that Dr Darkness was arrogant and presumptuous and guilty of putting himself in the place of God.
Yes your husband was dying - and so are we all approaching death, even from the day we were born. God should be the ons who decides the time for the final breath.
Comment Written 27-May-2021
reply by the author on 27-May-2021
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Good morning, Wendy.
Thanks for the awesome sunshine and glitter. Your praising words put a huge smile on my face and in my heart.
I too believe the doctor put himself above his oath and above God. I knew Mike's passing was inevitable, but not then and not that way. I hope the Dr. likes the heat because his soul is in a dark place.
Have a great day! Smiles...Carol
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You are very welcome. It was compelling reading.
Comment from Susan Newell
Dear Carol,
I am honored that I have gained your respect after such a short time here. However, I am going to have to disappoint you by excusing myself from jury duty. Please know that you have my utmost sympathy for your loss and my empathy for the pain your grief is causing you.
But, I am not qualified to render an opinion, be it spiritual, moral, ethical or legal. I have no idea what documents Mike might have signed, or what he might have said privately to the doctor. Anyone who is accused deserves the right to a defense, and any juror has a responsibility to consider that before rendering an opinion. That includes Dr. Darkness.
I will say that I believe Mike has gone to a better life and awaits you there. For some reason God called him home ahead of you. Although you miss him terribly, you know in your heart that God loves him and is taking good care of him.
If you truly believe that the doctor instituted hospice protocols against Mike's wishes, I would suggest you consult an attorney.
I'm sorry that I can't offer more.
Sue
reply by the author on 27-May-2021
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Dear Carol,
I am honored that I have gained your respect after such a short time here. However, I am going to have to disappoint you by excusing myself from jury duty. Please know that you have my utmost sympathy for your loss and my empathy for the pain your grief is causing you.
But, I am not qualified to render an opinion, be it spiritual, moral, ethical or legal. I have no idea what documents Mike might have signed, or what he might have said privately to the doctor. Anyone who is accused deserves the right to a defense, and any juror has a responsibility to consider that before rendering an opinion. That includes Dr. Darkness.
I will say that I believe Mike has gone to a better life and awaits you there. For some reason God called him home ahead of you. Although you miss him terribly, you know in your heart that God loves him and is taking good care of him.
If you truly believe that the doctor instituted hospice protocols against Mike's wishes, I would suggest you consult an attorney.
I'm sorry that I can't offer more.
Sue
Comment Written 27-May-2021
reply by the author on 27-May-2021
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Good morning, Susan.
As described, you are true to form. Analytical, impartial, and quick to point out the what ifs....
It's not something I will pursue for many reasons... the main one being it wouldn't change the most important thing... Mike will still be gone. His daughters stopped talking to me and told me to let him rest in peace.... so I will. As for Dr. Darkness... he will have his own court to face in God's eyes.
Have a great day!
Smniles, Carol
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Good morning,
I think you have chosen the right course of action. Try to find joy in memories and peace through faith.
Sue
Comment from Elizabeth Emerald
My vote: GUILTY of impersonating God. How dare he withdraw life support against your wishes. In every case I know of patients on hospice, death has been aggressively hastened. I am honored to be on the jury.
reply by the author on 27-May-2021
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My vote: GUILTY of impersonating God. How dare he withdraw life support against your wishes. In every case I know of patients on hospice, death has been aggressively hastened. I am honored to be on the jury.
Comment Written 27-May-2021
reply by the author on 27-May-2021
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I know it was the inevitable outcome, but after the best day ever to discover, I didn't have a chance for a last goodbye felt like a robbery. I might have believed him if he hadn't been so eager to push us toward giving up so many times before... Now it felt like the end justified his means. I believe he played God... Hope his soul likes the heat.
smiles, Carol
Comment from karenina
Oh my! I am NOT dressed properly for court!
Thankfully, as foreperson, (a distinct honor I assure you I will do my best to deserve!), I hereby offer the optional "virtual zoom" deliberations...which allow for slipper socks, bed head, jogging pants and assorted other "uniforms" many of us have become accustomed to while in pandemic mode.
(Even YOU Ric!)
Good? All opposed say "No!"
Hmmm. I heard nothing... So we shall proceed "as we were."
Fortunately, you've done a marvelous job of jury selection.... "BULL" would be envious...
I will simply start by welcoming the FABULOUS jury. (applause please!)-
And by way of bolstering our verdict with candor, state that as a Registered Nurse of more than three decades I have been frequently reminded that an M.D.--- any M.D. from any Medical School (but let's say HARVARD)-- can and will pass their Medical Licensure Exam with any score of 70% or above...
This (food for thought)--means these men (or women)--- can NOT know 29% of what they SHOULD know...and still be "let off leash" to grow egos and arrogance considerably higher than their IQ!
Secondly, I ask my fellow jurors to consider by what doctrine the Constitution ceases to be relative to a citizen who becomes ill?
Even very ill.
Finally I will remind all concerned that the very REASON patients sign DNR orders is because it is PRESUMED, in the Medical field, that unless specifically prohibited by the PATIENT or his authorized representative...
ALL measures to keep any patient alive are in force. Not "if the doctor feels like it."---
First line of the Hippocratic Oath?
" FIRST, DO NO HARM."
With that I throw open this matter for discussion...
Fellow jurors?
What say ye?
(I predict a quick and unanimous verdict!)
Please have a malpractice attorney standing by...
Karenina
reply by the author on 27-May-2021
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Oh my! I am NOT dressed properly for court!
Thankfully, as foreperson, (a distinct honor I assure you I will do my best to deserve!), I hereby offer the optional "virtual zoom" deliberations...which allow for slipper socks, bed head, jogging pants and assorted other "uniforms" many of us have become accustomed to while in pandemic mode.
(Even YOU Ric!)
Good? All opposed say "No!"
Hmmm. I heard nothing... So we shall proceed "as we were."
Fortunately, you've done a marvelous job of jury selection.... "BULL" would be envious...
I will simply start by welcoming the FABULOUS jury. (applause please!)-
And by way of bolstering our verdict with candor, state that as a Registered Nurse of more than three decades I have been frequently reminded that an M.D.--- any M.D. from any Medical School (but let's say HARVARD)-- can and will pass their Medical Licensure Exam with any score of 70% or above...
This (food for thought)--means these men (or women)--- can NOT know 29% of what they SHOULD know...and still be "let off leash" to grow egos and arrogance considerably higher than their IQ!
Secondly, I ask my fellow jurors to consider by what doctrine the Constitution ceases to be relative to a citizen who becomes ill?
Even very ill.
Finally I will remind all concerned that the very REASON patients sign DNR orders is because it is PRESUMED, in the Medical field, that unless specifically prohibited by the PATIENT or his authorized representative...
ALL measures to keep any patient alive are in force. Not "if the doctor feels like it."---
First line of the Hippocratic Oath?
" FIRST, DO NO HARM."
With that I throw open this matter for discussion...
Fellow jurors?
What say ye?
(I predict a quick and unanimous verdict!)
Please have a malpractice attorney standing by...
Karenina
Comment Written 26-May-2021
reply by the author on 27-May-2021
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Well done, my dear. I knew I had chosen well. As for the malpractice, his girls stopped talking to me and told me to let their dad rest in peace. Dr. Darkness will have to answer to God and not in the court of law. Smiles, Carol
Thank you for your active participation in this trial. You are the best!
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Ah, well. I am not one to judge as I personally don't sue people--better to leave it to God. Still! Dr. Darkness had it coming!-- SO SORRY you lost Mike under such dire circumstances. He clearly had his rights usurped... Karenina
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He did... but at the moment in time, I was lost in him being gone and then when I thought about it..I was the only one who did. Other circumstances of late made me open the wrong door in my corridor of thought, and it blasted forward like an attack dog. The doors slammed shut, the dog's under control, and I shall continue with another piece of drama. Hugs to you. Carol
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We can't dwell. Other people can be toxic...sounds like his daughters became that way. I know he'd want you to push forward and live every moment! He'll be waiting. No hurry... K
