Going Home
A Trip Made Thousands of Times, but not like this!17 total reviews
Comment from Dorothy Farrell
Hello 'Begin Again', you told this story well and it brought tears to my eyes. OMG! Growing old, we have no idea what is in store. Your mother sounded like a strong, intelligent woman who was good company. To see what cancer can do to a person is cruel. You write well - I did not intend reading this story, but once I started I could not stop. You write so well and it must have been painful while doing it. The dedication at the end about your mother- Margaret A. Ebens 1920 - 2017, gives an insight to the woman she was. You miss her - of course you do. I miss my mother every day I think of her. Your mother had a long life and was lively till the end - not many can say that.
A brilliant story - Good Luck in the contest. Warm regards Dorothy x
reply by the author on 26-Jan-2021
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Hello 'Begin Again', you told this story well and it brought tears to my eyes. OMG! Growing old, we have no idea what is in store. Your mother sounded like a strong, intelligent woman who was good company. To see what cancer can do to a person is cruel. You write well - I did not intend reading this story, but once I started I could not stop. You write so well and it must have been painful while doing it. The dedication at the end about your mother- Margaret A. Ebens 1920 - 2017, gives an insight to the woman she was. You miss her - of course you do. I miss my mother every day I think of her. Your mother had a long life and was lively till the end - not many can say that.
A brilliant story - Good Luck in the contest. Warm regards Dorothy x
Comment Written 26-Jan-2021
reply by the author on 26-Jan-2021
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Dorothy, I thank you for your many kind words and of course for the precious stars. But truly I thank you for getting to know my mom...she was a fighter and a true friend until the very end. I was blessed to have shared and been a part of her life. She too was blessed. Smiles to you and may your day be blessed.
Carol
Comment from Ric Myworld
We never truly get over the loss or stop missing those we love who have gone on before us. But we can be thankful for the happier times we shared and that they are no longer in pain. Cancer is a dreadful disease. My father had it three times and it caused some terrible aftereffects for him to live with from his first battle at 58. At 85, it finally won. There is never anything anyone can say to ease the hurt or your loss, but please know there are plenty who wish they could.
reply by the author on 26-Jan-2021
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We never truly get over the loss or stop missing those we love who have gone on before us. But we can be thankful for the happier times we shared and that they are no longer in pain. Cancer is a dreadful disease. My father had it three times and it caused some terrible aftereffects for him to live with from his first battle at 58. At 85, it finally won. There is never anything anyone can say to ease the hurt or your loss, but please know there are plenty who wish they could.
Comment Written 26-Jan-2021
reply by the author on 26-Jan-2021
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Good morning, my friend. As you see, my mind has taken a long stroll down memory lane. I know it's filled with sadness and loss, but it's also filled with happiness and love. I tell myself that the tears are simply a shower for these weary eyes. I'm sorry to hear that your father had to suffer with his cancer. A difficult time for all. WE had no explanation for the fact my mother felt no pain - ever....other than God blessed her and us. Sending smiles and blessing to you my friend. Have a great day!
Carol
Comment from Raffaelina Lowcock
The story of your visit to the hospital, only to find your mother was so close to death, is so tragic. Why was her own doctor not being candid about her condition? A chemo shot for $28,000 sounds outrageous, yet is it possible they were benefiting from hiding the truth? Beyond all that, what very upsetting circumstances you have been through with the passing of your parents. Bless you.
Ralf
reply by the author on 26-Jan-2021
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The story of your visit to the hospital, only to find your mother was so close to death, is so tragic. Why was her own doctor not being candid about her condition? A chemo shot for $28,000 sounds outrageous, yet is it possible they were benefiting from hiding the truth? Beyond all that, what very upsetting circumstances you have been through with the passing of your parents. Bless you.
Ralf
Comment Written 25-Jan-2021
reply by the author on 26-Jan-2021
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Thank you for your kind review. Yes I think money was a key part of the equation. They knew she was very old and felt they would get me to try and prolong her life....which they did. My husband was terminally ill at the time so I just let it go instead of investigating more. The roads been a rough one but my angels will get me through. Smiles to you --- Carol
Comment from BethShelby
It is a beautiful story you wrote and it remind me a lot of my own story with my husband. I was broadsided at the last minute to. They don't tell you everything and when they to talk to do it when you want them to shup up. They day they sent Hospice to talk to me was the day he died. You had your Mom a long time. My husband was 88. We'd been married a long time. He never really suffered. I home your monther didn't.
reply by the author on 25-Jan-2021
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It is a beautiful story you wrote and it remind me a lot of my own story with my husband. I was broadsided at the last minute to. They don't tell you everything and when they to talk to do it when you want them to shup up. They day they sent Hospice to talk to me was the day he died. You had your Mom a long time. My husband was 88. We'd been married a long time. He never really suffered. I home your monther didn't.
Comment Written 25-Jan-2021
reply by the author on 25-Jan-2021
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Hi Beth ....Thanks for stopping by and reading my story. I was missing my mom a lot today and felt I needed to make a connection. It was miraculous that she never felt the pain. God blessed her for sure. The doctors were dumbfounded by it. My husband on the other hand suffered a very long time. Smiles to you!
Comment from Wendy G
What a beautiful and moving story, and I can see your pain in recording it, but you have done a wonderful job. The writing is clear, and honest. Hugs to you, and best wishes for the contest.
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reply by the author on 25-Jan-2021
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What a beautiful and moving story, and I can see your pain in recording it, but you have done a wonderful job. The writing is clear, and honest. Hugs to you, and best wishes for the contest.
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Comment Written 25-Jan-2021
reply by the author on 25-Jan-2021
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Thank you Wendy for all your kind words. It was difficult to write and I did shed quite a few tears, but in some ways I felt I was honoring my mom one last time. I miss her so much. Smiles and best wishes to you.
Comment from Anne Johnston
It is hard to find words to express how I feel reading this. I am so sorry that you had to face this and I admire you for sharing this with us all. It must have been very hard to write. I pray the Lord will give you comfort.
reply by the author on 25-Jan-2021
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It is hard to find words to express how I feel reading this. I am so sorry that you had to face this and I admire you for sharing this with us all. It must have been very hard to write. I pray the Lord will give you comfort.
Comment Written 25-Jan-2021
reply by the author on 25-Jan-2021
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Thank you Anne. Today was a tough day but I wanted to share a bit of my Mom. She was such a fighter till her last breath. I am glad you read it and understood the pain and emotions behind the words. You are very kind and blessing my mom's story with 6 stars was awesome. Smiles to you!
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You are very welcome. I was unable to be with my mom when she passed.
Comment from DonandVicki
Thhis sad and yet somehow heartwarming story reminded me of my mothers passing. I go to see her two months before she passed. I had to get back to California and had to leave her in Ohio. I got a phone call hours before she passed and spoke a few words of love over the phone to her.
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reply by the author on 25-Jan-2021
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Thhis sad and yet somehow heartwarming story reminded me of my mothers passing. I go to see her two months before she passed. I had to get back to California and had to leave her in Ohio. I got a phone call hours before she passed and spoke a few words of love over the phone to her.
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Comment Written 25-Jan-2021
reply by the author on 25-Jan-2021
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Oh, I am so sorry that you also lost your mom. It must have been heartbreaking not to have been able to stay by her side till the end. I'm sure she is watching you and you are always blessed by her love. Thank you for the kind review. Smiles to you!
