The Doormat
sort of self-explanatory37 total reviews
Comment from Janet Foor
The Doormat really hit home. I was a doormat to my "1st" husband and his family for 30 years. The marriage ended when I decided that that was no longer acceptable.
(I guess I'm a slow learner) Since I tend to be a people pleaser, I have to fight that tendency even today.
Thank you for sharing.
Sweet kitten picture.
Blessings
Janet
reply by the author on 02-Jul-2024
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The Doormat really hit home. I was a doormat to my "1st" husband and his family for 30 years. The marriage ended when I decided that that was no longer acceptable.
(I guess I'm a slow learner) Since I tend to be a people pleaser, I have to fight that tendency even today.
Thank you for sharing.
Sweet kitten picture.
Blessings
Janet
Comment Written 01-Jul-2024
reply by the author on 02-Jul-2024
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Janet, I actually completely understand, as I have found myself to have similar tendencies. But then, we are nice to people, but?I find it difficult to stand up for myself even when necessary because I hate confrontation.
But?I damn will when I have to.
Smile,
Doug
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Me too Doug. I do when I have to stand up for myself.
A few years ago my daughter said to me, ? I?m glad you?re standing up for yourself mom, but don?t do it to me.? Haha.
Have a Happy 4th of July.
Comment from Natureschild
Hi Victortouche, I like the structure of this poem with its short lines and stanzas. It adds to the feeling of delicacy and attentiveness. The tone is gentle and loving. The imagery, especially the welcome mat, conveys feelings of hospitality and care. - Terry
reply by the author on 02-Jul-2024
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Hi Victortouche, I like the structure of this poem with its short lines and stanzas. It adds to the feeling of delicacy and attentiveness. The tone is gentle and loving. The imagery, especially the welcome mat, conveys feelings of hospitality and care. - Terry
Comment Written 01-Jul-2024
reply by the author on 02-Jul-2024
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Thank you, Terry.
And that is exactly why I used that pic. Cute little bugger, ain?t he?
Comment from nomi338
He who would peacefully coexist with the feline who agrees to live among him, had better be prepared to be somewhat of a doormat, a floormat even. Whatever you do, provide food and water on a timely basis, and keep the litter box clean and ready for use at any and all times.
reply by the author on 02-Jul-2024
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He who would peacefully coexist with the feline who agrees to live among him, had better be prepared to be somewhat of a doormat, a floormat even. Whatever you do, provide food and water on a timely basis, and keep the litter box clean and ready for use at any and all times.
Comment Written 01-Jul-2024
reply by the author on 02-Jul-2024
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Ha ha. You have lived with cats cats, haven?t you? I?m still chuckling.
Thanks, Nomi.
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His name is Cheddar, the dictator. Oh yes, he decided that we were worthy as long as we are willing to abide by his rules. If we do not keep the doors locked, he will even let himself in and or out. If the doors are all locked, he will come and get one of us to let him out or make so mch noise from the outside, that we will be forced to come and let him in.
Comment from ElPoetry001
It seems a metaphorical embrace of respect and charity, when and where one can enjoy the status of "somebody."
Giving or receiving affirmation is a need, want, and a desire.
Acceptance spawns creation in the circle of positive recognition.
Welcome.
reply by the author on 02-Jul-2024
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It seems a metaphorical embrace of respect and charity, when and where one can enjoy the status of "somebody."
Giving or receiving affirmation is a need, want, and a desire.
Acceptance spawns creation in the circle of positive recognition.
Welcome.
Comment Written 01-Jul-2024
reply by the author on 02-Jul-2024
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What an insight from an obvious intellectual mind.
Wow, if I may say so.
Thank you,
Doug
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Thank you. Stay well.
Comment from Dr. Nad
The wide open door mat can be a metaphor for so many things and all of them represent an inviting environment. There are people, things, and situations, that would knock at our door and we would not want to let them in. It is refreshing to have visitors that are truly welcome. Thanks for sharing.
reply by the author on 01-Jul-2024
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The wide open door mat can be a metaphor for so many things and all of them represent an inviting environment. There are people, things, and situations, that would knock at our door and we would not want to let them in. It is refreshing to have visitors that are truly welcome. Thanks for sharing.
Comment Written 30-Jun-2024
reply by the author on 01-Jul-2024
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And thank you for reading me.
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You are most welcome my friend.
Comment from Nicki.B
I think perhaps we have all at some stage in our lives unwillingly or unintentionally became a doormat for either a family member, friend, partner. What matter is we learn from it and we move on and don't allow ourselves to be used in such a way again. Very well written, I enjoyed it.
reply by the author on 01-Jul-2024
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I think perhaps we have all at some stage in our lives unwillingly or unintentionally became a doormat for either a family member, friend, partner. What matter is we learn from it and we move on and don't allow ourselves to be used in such a way again. Very well written, I enjoyed it.
Comment Written 30-Jun-2024
reply by the author on 01-Jul-2024
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Thank you. I do believe you are smarter than me, for...never to be used again would imply I learned from the first time. Lol
Comment from Jodi Ann Anderson
What a cute, beautifully written poem! Pets give us unconditional love. Also congratulations for being recognized and the all time best status! Nice one!
reply by the author on 01-Jul-2024
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What a cute, beautifully written poem! Pets give us unconditional love. Also congratulations for being recognized and the all time best status! Nice one!
Comment Written 30-Jun-2024
reply by the author on 01-Jul-2024
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Thank you so much.
Comment from Brenda Strauser
I like your poem and the picture. The cat looks like one I had years ago. Pets love you unconditionally. I like the words: my welcome mat and the tenderness. Very good job.
reply by the author on 01-Jul-2024
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I like your poem and the picture. The cat looks like one I had years ago. Pets love you unconditionally. I like the words: my welcome mat and the tenderness. Very good job.
Comment Written 30-Jun-2024
reply by the author on 01-Jul-2024
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Thanks for your comments. I appreciate them.
Comment from Steve Foreman
A cool poem. I like the use of "bruises" instead of stains, or whatever, and "the cloth of me". Obviously you love your cat on the mat! Well written.
reply by the author on 01-Jul-2024
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A cool poem. I like the use of "bruises" instead of stains, or whatever, and "the cloth of me". Obviously you love your cat on the mat! Well written.
Comment Written 30-Jun-2024
reply by the author on 01-Jul-2024
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Smiling.
Thank you,
Doug
Comment from Pam Lonsdale
I read this because of the cat picture, I admit. I'm a lover of all cats far and near:-)
I didn't find it "self-explanatory"; rather, this could be the cat talking to you, you talking to the cat, the writer speaking to his readers . . . I never thought of a muse until I read your author's notes.
But isn't this what poetry is meant to be? In the eye of the many beholders.
Here's to hoping your readers walk upon your writing with tenderness:-)
xo
Pam
reply by the author on 01-Jul-2024
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I read this because of the cat picture, I admit. I'm a lover of all cats far and near:-)
I didn't find it "self-explanatory"; rather, this could be the cat talking to you, you talking to the cat, the writer speaking to his readers . . . I never thought of a muse until I read your author's notes.
But isn't this what poetry is meant to be? In the eye of the many beholders.
Here's to hoping your readers walk upon your writing with tenderness:-)
xo
Pam
Comment Written 30-Jun-2024
reply by the author on 01-Jul-2024
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Ha ha. Thank you, Pam. There are always several interpretations to ANY poem. Regardless if the author believes otherwise. I have learned this over the years.
So, you have hit upon a truth it took me a long time to realize.
Congrats. And thank you for reading me.
Doug