Timeless Space
Surviving a day alone and doing it in style37 total reviews
Comment from Thesis
I'm glad that the experience was pleasurable for you. The way you describe the time sounds fantastic. I'm sure it made you feel empowered to be alone and not worry about having to do things. Your acceptance that it was okay to relax, nap, and enjoy the experience is good to read.
reply by the author on 13-Jan-2025
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I'm glad that the experience was pleasurable for you. The way you describe the time sounds fantastic. I'm sure it made you feel empowered to be alone and not worry about having to do things. Your acceptance that it was okay to relax, nap, and enjoy the experience is good to read.
Comment Written 11-Jan-2025
reply by the author on 13-Jan-2025
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Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Yes, my acceptance of what was is part of the deal of living alone and enjoying it.
Jesse
Comment from mermaids
I was alone too on Christmas day. I worked 7-3 and found I enjoyed just being with my animals when I came home. You make some good points in your essay. Being alone can be healthy and also a holiday tradition. We do not have to be with people on the holidays. Mindfulness is therapeutic and you found out how healing it is. I am glad you had a good day.
reply by the author on 15-Jan-2025
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I was alone too on Christmas day. I worked 7-3 and found I enjoyed just being with my animals when I came home. You make some good points in your essay. Being alone can be healthy and also a holiday tradition. We do not have to be with people on the holidays. Mindfulness is therapeutic and you found out how healing it is. I am glad you had a good day.
Comment Written 11-Jan-2025
reply by the author on 15-Jan-2025
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Being alone with beloved pets is not being alone at all. I remember my love of my cat, Sunny, and her love kept me company many a night I would otherwise be alone.
People do not need to accompany us to enjoy the holidays.
Mindfulness is therapeutic and helps with personal growth.
Jesse
Comment from kahpot
Sometimes we need time alone, though I understand that in some circumstances this may seem daunting, when I first started reading your story, I somehow knew you would find a way to not only cope but enjoy the task of making the best of it, a wonderful uplifting read, stay well Jesse****kahpot
reply by the author on 15-Jan-2025
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Sometimes we need time alone, though I understand that in some circumstances this may seem daunting, when I first started reading your story, I somehow knew you would find a way to not only cope but enjoy the task of making the best of it, a wonderful uplifting read, stay well Jesse****kahpot
Comment Written 11-Jan-2025
reply by the author on 15-Jan-2025
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Yes, my friend, you know me well and knew I would be able to cope with the task of enjoying my company. I am glad you found this inspiring.
Stay well, and be healthy.
Jesse
Comment from LJbutterfly
Congratulations, Jesse. You've discovered the joy of being comfortable with yourself. We usually think it takes other people to make us happy. That's why many marriages fail. Each partner is looking for the other person to do things to make them happy.
We have to look within ourself and find the things we appreciate and like about ourself, and then follow-up by surrounding ourself with things we like.
You have accomplished something major. You love yourself enough to enjoy being comfortable with yourself. Thank you for sharing this positive message.
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Congratulations, Jesse. You've discovered the joy of being comfortable with yourself. We usually think it takes other people to make us happy. That's why many marriages fail. Each partner is looking for the other person to do things to make them happy.
We have to look within ourself and find the things we appreciate and like about ourself, and then follow-up by surrounding ourself with things we like.
You have accomplished something major. You love yourself enough to enjoy being comfortable with yourself. Thank you for sharing this positive message.
Comment Written 11-Jan-2025
Comment from Mike Stevens
Another fine write, Jesse......I don't mind spending time by myself, in fact since my wife left, I realize I prefer it. Not living life according to someone else's schedual
reply by the author on 12-Jan-2025
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Another fine write, Jesse......I don't mind spending time by myself, in fact since my wife left, I realize I prefer it. Not living life according to someone else's schedual
Comment Written 11-Jan-2025
reply by the author on 12-Jan-2025
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I'm glad, Mike, you enjoy being alone and prefer it over being with your ex-wife. Enjoy your alone time.
Jesse
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Thanks, Jesse, I wouldn't say prefer, just enjoying the change
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Glad to hear it!
Comment from Michele Harber
Wow! You have the most amazing attitude! I've never actually lived alone, having lived with my parents and sister until I got married. While I love alone time, I've always feared the thought of being alone for the holidays, for whatever reason.
Your tale has shown me that being alone for a major holiday can be even better than being alone at any other time. When you're alone on a "normal" day, yes, you may do things that give you pleasure, but you do them in between dealing with responsibilities. On major holidays, there are no responsibilities. Nothing is expected of you, as the people who might have had those expectations are busy enjoying their free time as well.
I'm glad that you were able to enjoy that day-and-a-half alone as much as you did, and I owe you for taking the fear out of the prospect of spending holidays alone.
reply by the author on 11-Jan-2025
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Wow! You have the most amazing attitude! I've never actually lived alone, having lived with my parents and sister until I got married. While I love alone time, I've always feared the thought of being alone for the holidays, for whatever reason.
Your tale has shown me that being alone for a major holiday can be even better than being alone at any other time. When you're alone on a "normal" day, yes, you may do things that give you pleasure, but you do them in between dealing with responsibilities. On major holidays, there are no responsibilities. Nothing is expected of you, as the people who might have had those expectations are busy enjoying their free time as well.
I'm glad that you were able to enjoy that day-and-a-half alone as much as you did, and I owe you for taking the fear out of the prospect of spending holidays alone.
Comment Written 11-Jan-2025
reply by the author on 11-Jan-2025
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Hello Michele.
You have brought up reasons why being alone during the holidays is even better, and I appreciate this. Thanks so much for the six stars and supportive review.
I am glad I overcame the fear of being alone for the holidays.
Enjoy the weekend.
Jesse
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Thanks, Jesse. You too. Your positive attitude never ceases to amaze and inspire me.
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With support from friends like you, it makes me who I am. It helps me be capable of having a positive attitude.
Thanks to you, I am who I am.
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Oh my goodness, what a lovely thing to say. Thank you!
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You're welcome, my friend.
Comment from Gypsy Blue Rose
Hello, Jesse,
I can relate. After my divorce, I spent 10 years alone. Most of the time was okay, most of the time even good and peaceful.
My sister told me, one thing is being alone and another is being lonely. I never forgot it.
Excellent biographical story. You are always very honest and real with your writing, I enjoy it.
Well done!
Gypsy hugs
"The poet waits quietly to paint the unsaid." - Â Atticus
reply by the author on 11-Jan-2025
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Hello, Jesse,
I can relate. After my divorce, I spent 10 years alone. Most of the time was okay, most of the time even good and peaceful.
My sister told me, one thing is being alone and another is being lonely. I never forgot it.
Excellent biographical story. You are always very honest and real with your writing, I enjoy it.
Well done!
Gypsy hugs
"The poet waits quietly to paint the unsaid." - Â Atticus
Comment Written 11-Jan-2025
reply by the author on 11-Jan-2025
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Hello Gypsy.
Your sister was right. There is a difference between being lonely and being alone. Thanks for the six stars and awesome review.
How are you doing as far as the fires are concerned?
You are in my thoughts.
Thanks for the Gypsy hugs and the wonderful quote.
Jesse
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The fire is very close to our house and the wind is supposed to get stronger so we probably will get an evacuation notice soon. It's a miracle it hasn't happened, we are very close. My older daughter. Thank you, Jesse
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I'm so sorry, my friend!
Take good care of yourself and all who are with you, stay safe, and be well!
You are in my thoughts tonight!
Jesse
Comment from Elias Noor
The piece is heartfelt and well-written, offering a comforting narrative about self-discovery and solitude. With minor enhancements in descriptive detail and flow, it would be even more impactful.
reply by the author on 13-Jan-2025
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The piece is heartfelt and well-written, offering a comforting narrative about self-discovery and solitude. With minor enhancements in descriptive detail and flow, it would be even more impactful.
Comment Written 11-Jan-2025
reply by the author on 13-Jan-2025
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Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I am proud of what I accomplished during these two days of solitude.
Jesse
Comment from Sandra Stoner-Mitchell
I am so pleased for you, Jesse. Now you have done it once, and very successfully, you will probably look forward to those times as and when you get them. There is no price you can put on your own independence. It sounds like you had a very nice Christmas. Happy New Year, my friend. :)) Sandra xxx
reply by the author on 15-Jan-2025
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I am so pleased for you, Jesse. Now you have done it once, and very successfully, you will probably look forward to those times as and when you get them. There is no price you can put on your own independence. It sounds like you had a very nice Christmas. Happy New Year, my friend. :)) Sandra xxx
Comment Written 11-Jan-2025
reply by the author on 15-Jan-2025
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You said it well, Sandra. There is no price you can put on your own independence. You are right, I will look forward to times again when I can be alone and comfortable in my skin.
Jesse
Comment from Wayne Fowler
Great! Might cause you to consider the need for as much caregiving in favor of more independence.
I enjoyed both days immensely. I spent time on and off on the computer, - Reads the same without the 'on' before 'the computer'.
relaxation mode, every time the spirit moved me. - The comma is not needed.
and nothing to do but, chill. - The comma is not needed.
Best wishes. Hope new years eve and day was the same!
reply by the author on 15-Jan-2025
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Great! Might cause you to consider the need for as much caregiving in favor of more independence.
I enjoyed both days immensely. I spent time on and off on the computer, - Reads the same without the 'on' before 'the computer'.
relaxation mode, every time the spirit moved me. - The comma is not needed.
and nothing to do but, chill. - The comma is not needed.
Best wishes. Hope new years eve and day was the same!
Comment Written 11-Jan-2025
reply by the author on 15-Jan-2025
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Time away from my caregivers is always helpful in achieving my independence. Thanks for the helpful hints on commas.
Jesse
