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Introduction to Stupidity

Searching For a Few Dull tools in the Shed

38 total reviews 
Comment from GWHARGIS
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Do not stop writing, promise me. We all get caught at some point with our pants down. There isn't one single person who hasn't been scammed. Some how. I worked for a man, briefly, who said your reward is in the near future. He paid minimum wage and when you worked overtime, guess what, it rolled forward. My last check from him bounced. I never got the money. Eighty hours, working in an unairconditioned warehouse with no bathroom. We've all done stupid shit. We love you, Jay. Gretchen

 Comment Written 15-Oct-2023


reply by the author on 15-Oct-2023
    Thank you, Gretchen. And the love goes right back to you. I have a hunch, of all the Fanstorians here, your Miranda will never let you get sucked in. If she did, it would be brief, and she'd learn from it.

    I could never stop writing. That's why I wrote this story. I need the therapy it provides.

    Thanks again, Gretchen.

    Jay
Comment from barbara.wilkey
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I read the longer piece first, go figure. It's how I do things sometimes. I want you to know your absence will be greatly missed, especially by me. I will continue praying for you.

 Comment Written 15-Oct-2023


reply by the author on 15-Oct-2023
    Thank you, Barbara. I need the time off, I think. Thank you, though, for your prayers. They help!
    Jay
Comment from LovnPeace
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I admire your courage and humility Jay. You did a great Help to many. I too am intelligent, but my daughter calls me naive. I do posses an innocent mind basically and tend to trust too easily until I learn I can't. Your story may keep some from being sucked in. Bravo for you. XO Blessings B

 Comment Written 15-Oct-2023


reply by the author on 15-Oct-2023
    Thank you so much, B. Your understanding is appreciated. I wish you hadn't wasted a sixth star on this intro to the other. But I'll accept it.

    Jay
Comment from pome lover
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well, Jay, that was a shocker. I'm very sorry for your situation. I guess your non ex-wife pays taxes, too?
You are such a talented writer and you have to be smart for that. heavy sigh. I will read your piece when you post it and get back to you.
How much longer do you have on your FS membership?
Katharine
PS
I got taken in by people who professed to be (of all things) protectors of the internet, and I signed a three yr contract for close to what you get a month. My daughter said, "Mom! that was scam! Did you look them up?"
I hadn't. and They were. a scam.

 Comment Written 15-Oct-2023


reply by the author on 15-Oct-2023
    Yes, sadly, I was taken in by a "speed your computer up" scam. They are all sad commentaries of the trustors and violators of trust. Thank you, Katherinel
    Jay
reply by pome lover on 15-Oct-2023
    Did you report them? Am sure you must have. Can't anything be done about them if they did that much damage?
reply by the author on 15-Oct-2023
    Not a thing can be done. The police told me that. I didn't even have them go to the extra time and trouble to fill out their report. They've got more to deal with in protecting our city from other senseless crime.
reply by pome lover on 15-Oct-2023
    okay. well I said more about that in the response I just sent, so just ignore it, please.
reply by the author on 15-Oct-2023
    I checked our reply history. I hope I didn't miss a response from you. No, the police said that all they could do was make copies of all the gift card receipts and keep them on file, but once the scammers got their numbers they were long gone ... as was my cash.
reply by pome lover on 15-Oct-2023
    A sickening experience. The evil in some people never ceases to amaze and anger me. And they were probably using those phones, I forget the name for them that people use, short term that can't be traced.
Comment from Ric Myworld
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It doesn't seem like I've seen much of you lately, either reviewing or posting, but like always, I'll be waiting anxiously to read your stories as always Thanks for sharing.

 Comment Written 15-Oct-2023


reply by the author on 15-Oct-2023
    Thank you, Ric. I just posted the longer piece a few minutes ago.
    Jay
Comment from Sally Law
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I will be glad to read your story and look forward to it. However, I absolutely forbid you to leave here!!! No, I'm not able to process this, Jay! I'm sure I'm not the only one. Too much collective loss this year! Please rethink this. Please.
Sending you my best today as always,
Sal XOs

 Comment Written 15-Oct-2023


reply by the author on 15-Oct-2023
    Thank you, Sally! Your appeal touches me. I hope you can put the longer one (I just posted it) in words to voice and listen to it.
Comment from Karen Cherry Threadgill
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I will be sad to see you go. We barely met. I like your work. I will read your missive. These people spend more time working ar scamming than would need to spend at an ordinary job sometimes. It boggles the mind. Karen

 Comment Written 15-Oct-2023


reply by the author on 15-Oct-2023
    Thank you, Karen. In my case, they came in looking for a lunch and found a banquet. I just posted it.

    Jay
reply by Karen Cherry Threadgill on 15-Oct-2023
    I hope you are not away for too long. Karen
reply by the author on 15-Oct-2023
    Karen, I think it will be for approximately 6 months. I have to coax back my self-esteem and rebuild some of the lost funds. Bless you.

    Jay
reply by Karen Cherry Threadgill on 15-Oct-2023
    I wish blessings on you and your family. Karen
Comment from BethShelby
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I'm sorry to hear you have been the victim of scam. They are very sophisticated and most people have to learn the hard way. Most of my acquaintances have been taken on some scale. I have a daughter who presists in getting nailed over and over. I'm also sorry to know you're in a bad place and will away for little while. I'm anxious to read the longer story.

 Comment Written 15-Oct-2023


reply by the author on 15-Oct-2023
    Thank you, Beth. The longer one just posted.
Comment from John Ciarmello
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Oh shit, Jay!!

Believe me, I know how elaborate they can be, and I won't go any further.

It concerns me more that you're giving up the single outlet that can pull you from the darkness, my friend!!

I'm sure your decision is not a hasty one. We love you too, Jay, and know you're a needed part of this community! Best, JohnC

 Comment Written 15-Oct-2023


reply by the author on 15-Oct-2023
    Yeah, I know. I just posted the longer one a few minutes ago. I wish you hadn't wasted your six stars on this -- but I thank you!
Comment from Pam (respa)
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I'm sorry to hear about what happened to you, Jay, and also that you are in a dark place. Thoughts are with you, and know that I care about you and your well being. It isn't easy writing a review when it comes to feelings and events that change a person's life and not for the better.

It's nice to know you can depend on your wife for help with the finances even though you are separated. It is sad to know that you were a victim of scammers. It's also a shame they don't use what they "know" for a better purpose.

I'm also sorry you're not renewing your FS membership, but I hope the New Year brings you new hope and that we will see you back when you are ready. Take care and be well. You will be missed.

Between then and now, remember that you were the one who encouraged me to think outside the box and try to write song lyrics.

Your friend,
Pam

 Comment Written 15-Oct-2023


reply by the author on 15-Oct-2023
    Pam, thank you for your encouragement. That means a lot to me. I wish you wouldn't have wasted a six star for this, though. I just wanted to let everyone know what was coming (and it came!) since it won't be highly promoted and those ones tend to get lost.
    Jay
reply by Pam (respa) on 15-Oct-2023
    You are very welcome, Jay, and I didn't waste a six star. It was for you because you shared your feelings, and managed to do it eloquently. I also care about you and am sorry you are in a dark place. Think of it as encouragement for things to get better. I didn't have a chance to tell you I also like your profile picture.
reply by the author on 15-Oct-2023
    Thank you about the picture. It's me, warts and all! That dark place is getting brighter by the minute with kindness such as yours.
    Jay
reply by Pam (respa) on 16-Oct-2023
    You are welcome, Jay, and I am glad the kindness is working.