Not my party ...
No mask tonight34 total reviews
Comment from Pearl Edwards
I love the use of that great old song to finish off your write about the masks we hide behind. Maybe you will find others will be glad to drop the false bravado also. Look after yourself Wendy.
Valda
reply by the author on 16-Oct-2023
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I love the use of that great old song to finish off your write about the masks we hide behind. Maybe you will find others will be glad to drop the false bravado also. Look after yourself Wendy.
Valda
Comment Written 16-Oct-2023
reply by the author on 16-Oct-2023
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Thank you very much Pearl for your fine review, and for the honour and encouragement of six stars.
Wendy
Comment from kahpot
Wow! I really like this read, so very true about so many people, and I think we can all admit to being that person at some time, very well written, best wishes for your contest****kahpot
reply by the author on 14-Oct-2023
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Wow! I really like this read, so very true about so many people, and I think we can all admit to being that person at some time, very well written, best wishes for your contest****kahpot
Comment Written 14-Oct-2023
reply by the author on 14-Oct-2023
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Thank you very much, Kahpot. We all choose to wear masks at times, and at times it is appropriate.
I greatly appreciate the six stars, and also your good wishes.
Wendy
Comment from LJbutterfly
I thoroughly understand how you feel about wearing fake masks. You have expressed it well, in your contest entry. I currently don't care to be exposed to the woes of others. Not that I don't care. I can be brought to tears in just a few minutes based on things I'm experiencing in my own life.
I recently went to a luncheon with buddies that exercised together prior to Covid. Everyone was well masked, laughing and cheering. I now use a cane, and recently lost my younger sister. With a smile on my face, I silently felt out of place. They may have also. We possibly all wore fake masks.
I like your take on mask wearing. Best wishes in the contest.
reply by the author on 14-Oct-2023
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I thoroughly understand how you feel about wearing fake masks. You have expressed it well, in your contest entry. I currently don't care to be exposed to the woes of others. Not that I don't care. I can be brought to tears in just a few minutes based on things I'm experiencing in my own life.
I recently went to a luncheon with buddies that exercised together prior to Covid. Everyone was well masked, laughing and cheering. I now use a cane, and recently lost my younger sister. With a smile on my face, I silently felt out of place. They may have also. We possibly all wore fake masks.
I like your take on mask wearing. Best wishes in the contest.
Comment Written 14-Oct-2023
reply by the author on 14-Oct-2023
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Thank you very much for your insightful review. Yes, one has to discern whether it?s better to simply reflect quietly rather than expose our inner grief and or distress which really is burdening others unnecessarily. Others may well be going to a function in order to escape the reality of their own issues for a while, and there is a place for that and some good in it too. Yet I too would have felt out of place last night, and would have not been able to enjoy the evening. The question of the masks we all wear is fascinating. Sometimes older people lose all their social filters and can then be hurtful, even cruel. Perhaps better for them to wear a mask of politeness ?. Interesting. Many thanks.
Wendy
Comment from T B Botts
Hello Wendy,
I wish I had one more six. They don't give us enough. As we progress as writers, I think there should be more sixes to be awarded. That being said, this was excellent. I thought at first that you were referring to the physical mask that was thrust upon us during Covid. Then I realized you were speaking of the outward mask that so many people wear to hide their pain or whatever. When I lived on the farm so many years ago, I had developed a reputation for speaking what was on my mind, which was often contrary to the general spirit of the place. When people got disillusioned and ready to leave, they often came over to speak to me, knowing that I would be in agreement with them. I think it's always best to be truthful in our feelings. That being said, sometimes a party is just what we need to have a change of pace. I'm glad that you mentioned your foster son again. I sometimes forget who all has asked for prayer on this site, I'm sorry. I hope and pray that he will have a rapid recovery.
God bless and keep you gal.
Tom
reply by the author on 14-Oct-2023
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Hello Wendy,
I wish I had one more six. They don't give us enough. As we progress as writers, I think there should be more sixes to be awarded. That being said, this was excellent. I thought at first that you were referring to the physical mask that was thrust upon us during Covid. Then I realized you were speaking of the outward mask that so many people wear to hide their pain or whatever. When I lived on the farm so many years ago, I had developed a reputation for speaking what was on my mind, which was often contrary to the general spirit of the place. When people got disillusioned and ready to leave, they often came over to speak to me, knowing that I would be in agreement with them. I think it's always best to be truthful in our feelings. That being said, sometimes a party is just what we need to have a change of pace. I'm glad that you mentioned your foster son again. I sometimes forget who all has asked for prayer on this site, I'm sorry. I hope and pray that he will have a rapid recovery.
God bless and keep you gal.
Tom
Comment Written 14-Oct-2023
reply by the author on 14-Oct-2023
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Thank you Tom for your lovely review, and you are right. But there are times when simply being alone is so much easier than trying to be upbeat, not wanting to spoil others? fun. It?s a balance. I don?t mask what I believe, but I often do with my emotions. But this time I was a bit too fragile. I appreciate your very thoughtful review.
Wendy
Comment from BethShelby
This is beautifully written. You are right when we bump into someone we haven't seen for a while we are superficially friendly wearing out invisable mask as we pretent everything is good in our world. Parties aren't about comforting anyone who may be suffering. They are about fun and laughter and at least pretending all is right in your world. I know your are hurting inside. I was hoping the boy would have improved. My thoughts at prayers go out to you and him.
reply by the author on 14-Oct-2023
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This is beautifully written. You are right when we bump into someone we haven't seen for a while we are superficially friendly wearing out invisable mask as we pretent everything is good in our world. Parties aren't about comforting anyone who may be suffering. They are about fun and laughter and at least pretending all is right in your world. I know your are hurting inside. I was hoping the boy would have improved. My thoughts at prayers go out to you and him.
Comment Written 14-Oct-2023
reply by the author on 14-Oct-2023
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Thank you Beth. I appreciate your understanding and insight. When we are a bit fragile, we don't want to go somewhere to spoil things for others by being upset or withdrawn. He is still seriously ill, but perhaps making a very slight improvement. We'll see what this week brings. Many thanks for your prayers. Thank you for the gift of six beautiful stars, very meaningful.
Wendy
Comment from Jesse James Doty
Well done. I love the last line which is from the pop hit of the 60s where she sings "It's my party and I'll cry if I want to."
You really wrote the truth when you said that friends stay superficial at parties. Only if they really care and are true close friends do they want to know how you really feel.
I love the reference to the song and how you stated completely and sincerely how you were doing.
Jesse
reply by the author on 14-Oct-2023
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Well done. I love the last line which is from the pop hit of the 60s where she sings "It's my party and I'll cry if I want to."
You really wrote the truth when you said that friends stay superficial at parties. Only if they really care and are true close friends do they want to know how you really feel.
I love the reference to the song and how you stated completely and sincerely how you were doing.
Jesse
Comment Written 14-Oct-2023
reply by the author on 14-Oct-2023
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Thank you Jesse for this lovely review. Greatly appreciated, along witth the six beautiful stars.
Wendy
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You're welcome, Wendy.
Your post was worth the six stars.
Jesse
Comment from zanya
Yes- the matter of 'masks' and how we 'wear' them well portrayed here - wishing your disabled foster sun well and recovery to good health- a good final line to sum up
reply by the author on 14-Oct-2023
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Yes- the matter of 'masks' and how we 'wear' them well portrayed here - wishing your disabled foster sun well and recovery to good health- a good final line to sum up
Comment Written 14-Oct-2023
reply by the author on 14-Oct-2023
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Thank you so much Zanya. I appreciate your kind review.
Wendy
Comment from barbara.wilkey
Thank you for sharing this contest entry with us. So many of us wear masks. During COVID we had a ZOOM high school class reunion. I was pretty much silent as I listened to how wonderful all my former classmates' lives were perfect. A few months later I was visiting my mom, and my brother, Dan was there. He was only one year behind me in school and asked about certain people. After I filled him in, I mentioned how they were all really successful and their children were doing great. He stared at me and then said something to the effect that I taught first grade and made changes in children lives. That I successfully raised four boys while my husband was in the military, often gone, and through countless moves. I also held the family together while all this military stuff happened and still have a strong family. My brother humbled me. No, I don't need to wear a mask. I'm a worthy person. I appreciate this post and good luck with the contest.
reply by the author on 14-Oct-2023
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Thank you for sharing this contest entry with us. So many of us wear masks. During COVID we had a ZOOM high school class reunion. I was pretty much silent as I listened to how wonderful all my former classmates' lives were perfect. A few months later I was visiting my mom, and my brother, Dan was there. He was only one year behind me in school and asked about certain people. After I filled him in, I mentioned how they were all really successful and their children were doing great. He stared at me and then said something to the effect that I taught first grade and made changes in children lives. That I successfully raised four boys while my husband was in the military, often gone, and through countless moves. I also held the family together while all this military stuff happened and still have a strong family. My brother humbled me. No, I don't need to wear a mask. I'm a worthy person. I appreciate this post and good luck with the contest.
Comment Written 14-Oct-2023
reply by the author on 14-Oct-2023
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Your brother was so right. Your wisdom and compassion have changed countless children's lives, including your own, and the effects will be lasting through the generations. Much more worthwhile than worldly fame or success. Thank you for reviewing, and for the good wishes.
Wendy
Wendy
Comment from Verna Cole Mitchell
This is so well written, along with being honest. We all wear masks sometimes, but it's good to know that among those who love us there is no need. I hope there is the best outcome for your former foster son.
reply by the author on 14-Oct-2023
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This is so well written, along with being honest. We all wear masks sometimes, but it's good to know that among those who love us there is no need. I hope there is the best outcome for your former foster son.
Comment Written 14-Oct-2023
reply by the author on 14-Oct-2023
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Thank you very much Verna. Such a kind and compassionate review, and I appreciate it a lot.
Wendy
Comment from jenintorre
What a fabulous story. I find that a very large percentage of people are only interested in talking about themselves. I guess this is a true story and my heart goes out to you. This is a very good interpretation of the mask prompt. Good luck in the competition. Jen.
reply by the author on 14-Oct-2023
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What a fabulous story. I find that a very large percentage of people are only interested in talking about themselves. I guess this is a true story and my heart goes out to you. This is a very good interpretation of the mask prompt. Good luck in the competition. Jen.
Comment Written 14-Oct-2023
reply by the author on 14-Oct-2023
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Thank you. Yes, it is true. I appreciate your very kind review and good wishes - and also for the wonderful six star rating.
Wendy
