We had a hectic life after my husband graduated from dental school. And added another wife to our bunch. I often seemed to run in all directions, cooking for almost 50 people tending 10kids changing 4 kids diapers tending a lot of children under10, we built a farm bucking hay at midnight and building a dental company all at once, we had horses and various other animals. We grew and canned fruit and vegetables I made cheese from our own cows often tinted green from our boys manner of milking, we ground and I mixed bread often 16 loaves at once my 5 brothers and his 12 brothers would move in to our already crowded house and build fences,buildings and planting along with bucking hay. At first when my little sister married our husband we turned to each other and for years were best friends, at least I thought so. Polygamy is an unhealthy way of life and leaves lasting damage to many.